I have money though but am not excessively rich.

Also, I have an amazing personality that I can adjust to cater to any girl. However, it is not enough - it always leads to me becoming their best platonic friend.

Thank you for your help and suggestions. The more detailed the better.



EDIT:
To be quite honest, I wanted the post to be very clear that physical attractiveness in a girl is the most important thing for me. I can cut back or even give up on everything else. Call me shallow, but the reason I want physical attractiveness is because I personally don't have it. We all want what we don't have. And it will definitely help my children to have an attractive mom -- cuz I won't be helping them in that area.





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Just let it happen. It was chance that I met my girlfriend. If you try too hard, it'll discourage you if no results occur. (Plus, the best girls are those who look for character, not wealth.)

Chocolate.

Confidence.

Spend monies.

????

Sandwiche.

lolololol

Random chance happens to a very few only. It's most probable that it will not happen if I just sit and do nothing.

JAHO

You don't. Don't cry emo kid.

Go for a fat chick, don't be so shallow. Mayhaps enjoy the girl's personality rather than her looks.

You menfolk are freaking ridiculous

Get an ugly girlfriend. That'll make the slightly less ugly girls jealous. Then dump her for one of the slightly less ugly girls. That'll make all the slightly less less ugly girls jealous. Repeat until you're at the top of the food chain.

Or date for personality and not looks. But who would want to do that?

I like your style. Would this work for a female? I am an unattractive fat girl who wants to get a rich man. So I just trade my way up the ladder?

@Meghan yes this will work. Or befriend the hot attractive girls and steal their rich, fine boyfriends. Whichever way you wanna do ti is fine.

It would be SO MUCH easier if I could do that. However, I cannot psychologically or physiologically do that.

Go to a hot country. There you shall find an abundance of hot girls.

Well then welcome to the forever alone club, you'll be here with us for a very long time.

For women, all you really need to do is promise six and a guy'll go out with you. You've got it made.

But what if I'm like...not into six? Should I just lie?

All praise JAHO, the holy advice of Vinegar Ra.

Seriously, just ask a girl out. Spark a conversation, talk to her a bit, try to go for a name and number. You don't always get lucky (the last two girls I asked out were both already in relationships), but unless you're a repugnant stain on humanity someone will bite eventually.

Also, don't just go for a girl based on looks. Try to figure out in the initial conversation if the girl is the type that has interesting things to say. Common interests and what not. Helps ensure a healthy relationship once you get past the whole "Ooh, our parts! They can interact!"

@Meghan, the intelligence, and personality of a woman does not have a positive correlation with her weight. There are plenty of lovely women who are also interesting people.

For starters, find a better word to describe her than "hot".

Yeah, just lie. Keep a sock on you at all times and try to switch with it if he gets pokey.

This has always confused me. Would you really [censored] a legitimately ugly woman, even if she promised six?

Ok, serious post time.

You say 'hot girl'. What does this mean? If you're talking purely about how they look, then my answer is simple - pay for a prosttute.

However, I'm going to assume you have more substance than that, and by 'hot', you mean somebody YOU are attracted to, on every level.

My advice: be yourself (listen to the sound of a thousand readers cringing in their seats) - but more importantly, be confident in being yourself. Be proud of the person you really are, and let it show. Don't put on an act. Don't try and impress people. Just live your life, and do what makes you happy. You want somebody you're compatible with, right? This is the only way you'll find that person. Just relax, live your life, and enjoy yourself.

No, probably not, but for the sake of humor I'll say I will.

This is the main problem. It is not an easy step, since they all don't want to go out. Unless, it is us hanging out with their boyfriend or working on the same project.

No. Not again anyway.