To be quite honest, I wanted the post to be very clear that physical attractiveness in a girl is the most important thing for me. I can cut back or even give up on everything else. Call me shallow, but the reason I want physical attractiveness is because I personally don't have it. We all want what we don't have. And it will definitely help my children to have an attractive mom -- cuz I won't be helping them in that area.
To be blunt, the chances of that happening are miniscule. Unless you are rich and famous, you're going to end up with a woman about as equally attractive as yourself, or none at all. A lot of these "forever alone" types have priced themselves out of competition with unreasonably high standards.
Why would a "hot" woman want to be with you? What do you have to offer that no physically attractive man would? Ask yourself that.