Seriously, let it go. Who cares about my opinions, the discussion is over, it's a new day, the argument is over. You win. Don't always take what I say so darn serious. I come here just to have some fun and blow off steam at the end of a long day after working 21 days straight.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EPhWR4d3FJQ


that was a joke

I almost missed the small print

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oN-4af19fIM

They spelled America wrong

I think your reactions are pretty normal, I probably would have been grateful and forgiving if they saved my dog but it's too late for that now so I wouldn't ponder on it much. All you can do is move on and take a lesson from your experience.

To be fair it's kind of hard for people to not take it seriously when you dehumanize people as mere addicts worthy of nothing but a bullet to the head because they made one stupid decision in their life, especially when it's fairly likely that they know and care for someone who's in that position.

ThatGuy = pure http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ad_hominem

In all seriousness I don't agree with many of Jonahirt's ideas either, but shameless personal attacks like this are low, cheap, and frankly, irrelevant. You have no good reason to insult him.

Anyway, back OT: under normal circumstances I wouldn't blame the OP for being angry with this woman, but it really depends on what you said to her before she died.

I think part of it is that when you say the things you're unwilling to defend logically, you say them in a deadpan tone, so it sounds like you seriously mean what you say.
If you actually do mean what you say, but are unwilling to defend it from glaring logical problems, then you shouldn't really be saying it.
Of course, you're entitled to, but simply saying something and then refusing to substantiate it lowers the level of discourse and is pretty much trolling.

Good question. Silver what did you say to her before she died?

last thing i said to her?
"Sure you can have a cup of sugar" ?
i just bought a massive bag of it from sams

Well it is definetly not the worse you could of said. Just keep in mind that the purpose of pain existing for us is so that we learn, and are made better people because of it. Rather than beat yourself up due to the experience, do make something out of yourself. You would be surprised just how much help it is to someone when you do so much as ask them if they need to talk about anything.

Most people do things, even the grimmest and looked down upon, for one reason or another. Ms.Addict here was likely pushed into her situation by some sort of stress factor, or need to escape in her life... or it could of been an ignorance in the matter? The point being, everyone has a story to tell, but not everyone has someone to tell it to. This is a foundation for you to begin with, if you truly want to be a better person.

Just remember: Some cases cannot be won. If you come across one of these where not even your best is enough, than pull out and make up for the loss tenfold.

yeah its hard, im glad im off tonight, gonna game abit

You're way to impressionable.

Don't tell him that! He'll believe you and change!

i was mean to a women who needed help
thats not in my nature, i dont like being hypocritical, it just feels wrong

This.

Then I can safely say I am inhuman. When my stuff got stolen my first reaction is to ask why and what happened, not getting upset.

wat.

No way. No one actually asks their neighbor for a cup of sugar anymore.

Why not?

I'm talking about you in general.

I'm just waiting for the day when you make a thread about how you woke up one morning to discover that the kitchen chair was standing on a spot that bothered you, resulting in feeling that the whole week was ruined.

You shouldn't become a complete [censored], but you know, growing a little thicker skin would probably help you somewhat. You can't let everything get onto you and despair at any negative incident.

I am going to steal your credit card details, your car, your wife or girlfriend (if you have one) and your Kelloggs Crunchy Nuts.

It depends on what has been stolen. And I wouldn't be proud of having empathy to robbers, but not to someone whose neighbour has just died.

How is this being "impressionable?"

Silver was mean to a woman, who's now died without his apology. There's nothing wrong with being shaken up from an experience like that. Taking this experience and growing from it is healthy.

That said, I don't think that feeling bad about it is. Her death aside, she stole from him. I would be pretty angry too, and her dying wouldn't make me regret that anger. But going after someone for having a heart is in very poor taste.

You can have my credit card, my car, my girlfriend...

...But if you touch my Crunchy Nuts, it's on. Keep your fingers off my nuts.

sorry to inconvenience you dude, not all of us want thick skin, death isnt anything to bat an eye to
thank you

Didn't you say you were off for the night?

from work
i work nights from 11:30- 8 am