Pony-mindedness

Post » Tue May 15, 2012 3:07 am

Oh my lord, so true. I have an elitist streak that is set off when I see such stuff is popular.

Don't even get me started on today's Pop. Music. :yuck:
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 10:27 pm

It saves lives.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 12:11 pm

That's not really what this seems to be about. It's not about being right or wrong, it's how you defend your position and or state your argument. There are "close-minded" people who will do nothing but scream out that they are right and you need to Please continue, my good sir., and there are those that will calmly ask you to explain why you believe than and try to pick it apart or follow by then calmly explaining their views. It's not at all about who is right or who isn't because in most cases there is no specific answer.

EDIT: Just wanted to say that I love this forums censor. I have never used the abbreviation s t f u here except to state that point...I just about destroyed my keyboard with beer. :biggrin:

Nailed it on the head. Exactly what I was trying to point out.

Some people don't even give other views a chance while other more open-minded people tend to try things out before passing judgement on them.

Knowing neither I can say she was wrong in standing up for her beliefs, at least in that she failed to explain why she believed what she believed.

People who go "shut up, you're wrong" without explaining why that's so rank somewhere between someone in a coma and a toddler as to the validity of their positions.

I wont go into specifics because it deals with politics, specifically the economy, but she had no concept of what she was trying to say. She said she wanted "X" outcome, but the way she said she wanted to achieve "X" outcome would in no direct way achieve it.

An anology would be that she said "Oh I want to go to Cancun, Mexico for Spring Break," and then started driving towards Ontario, Canada. I in turn stated how I believed said outcome could be achieved and she stated right off the bat that I was wrong and stupid without even considering what I was saying as a viable way to achieve the stated goal. She did have a few good points, however, the way she applied them and the ideas she attached them too caused none of it to make any sense, even from an open-minded point of view.

That's all I'm going to say on the matter though and I'd prefer if I wasn't pressed for more information as I cant elaborate on the situation any further without violating the forum's policies on political discussion. Also, as TheDeathDecay said, the specific situation isn't the reason for discussion, the idea that some people enter a discussion with a set view point and an unwillingness to change that view point is the reason for the thread. The incident simply sparked me to create the discussion.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 9:31 pm

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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 1:42 pm

I'm not supprised kids don't care about gas prices, the economy,etc...
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 5:53 pm

I'm not supprised kids don't care about gas prices, the economy,etc...

But care about Kim Kardashian, Justin Bieber, ect...
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 12:11 pm

Perhaps, OP, you should have been more open minded to what she was saying :P
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 7:22 pm



But care about Kim Kardashian, Justin Bieber, ect...

That's normal. When they're older they'll care about gas prices, etc, but for now - they're kids.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 6:22 pm

That's normal. When they're older they'll care about gas prices, etc, but for now - they're kids.
I've seen plenty of advlts who don't care about important issues either. Like almost everybody in my family. :dry:
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 12:04 pm

That's normal. When they're older they'll care about gas prices, etc, but for now - they're kids.
Agreed right here. Until you have to pay for everything yourself, it's hard to grasp what things actually cost. Gotta say, with these higher gas prices, I've been having to be very schedule centric with my friends, work, and, well, everything.

Case in point, me, who has been working for a year, is counting every penny spent, and hates seeing $60 being spent at the pump each week. My brother, pays $200s a week for how much he drives, and that doesn't include everything else he spends his money on (like food and his personal luxuries.)
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 2:01 pm

Agreed right here. Until you have to pay for everything yourself, it's hard to grasp what things actually cost. Gotta say, with these higher gas prices, I've been having to be very schedule centric with my friends, work, and, well, everything.

Case in point, me, who has been working for a year, is counting every penny spent, and hates seeing $60 being spent at the pump each week. My brother, pays $200s a week for how much he drives, and that doesn't include everything else he spends his money on (like food and his personal luxuries.)

I know exactly how you feel. Where I live there are pretty much no jobs for the 17-18 age group. All the agriculture jobs get taken by the migrant workers and the few restaurant jobs get taken by the older people who don't have jobs. I've been forced to work odd little jobs here and there like fertilizing plants at a nursery and running the game-clock at basketball games. Both of which I got through "friend of a friend" kind of things.

Every six months I'm having to fork over $800 for car insurance, even though I don't even have a car yet. So while I make $300 at a time doing small jobs and trying to save up about $5000 for a car, I keep having to pay $1600 a year for insurance to drive my parents cars to the jobs I need to make the money to get my own car. My Dad and I are paying close to $800 a month in gas for both cars as well. It's like one step forward two steps back. I've been saving as much money as I can and refusing to spend it on anything.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 9:33 pm

I've seen plenty of advlts who don't care about important issues either. Like almost everybody in my family. :dry:

"Escapism society"?
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 7:11 pm

"Escapism society"?
Basically. They live in world where they think everything is perfect, and there's nothing to be concerned about except who's going to be the next American Idol.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 12:33 pm

It's inevitable.

An individual of certain values and opinions will always be more susceptible to concepts akin to the concepts this individual holds, and rather shut other ideas out. It's probably because the ego doesn't want to be butthurt, realizing that it was wrong.
Yes, and when you recognize you aren't the ego, but the conscious that is aware of the ego dismissing such ideas then you can break free, get everyone to understand this is out of my power and I would refer to the being I soley trust. I can't speak of him due to rules but I'm sure he understands.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 6:59 pm

I have noticed that many of those around me have become more openminded, but I have also had situations in the past when I felt nobody would even consider other options. I guess it goes up and down for most people.

As for close-mindedness in itself I think it is important to at least listen to more than one side instead of assuming you are right.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 4:31 pm

This thread is going to lead to everyone calling each other close minded. :(

:lol: Ya, probably.

People have always been close-minded. It's not a new, magical aspect of human existence that's sprung up recently.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 12:23 pm

:lol: Ya, probably.

People have always been close-minded. It's not a new, magical aspect of human existence that's sprung up recently.

I know, but I've just been noticing it a lot more lately. :shrug:
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 11:54 pm

I know, but I've just been noticing it a lot more lately. :shrug:

Hmmm...maybe, you're just becoming...dare I say....OPEN MINDED?????!!!!! :tongue:
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Post » Tue May 15, 2012 12:32 am

Close your minds people.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 11:41 am

Times are desperate. People are desperate. Their minds are not free.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 11:33 am

People today are close-minded? Maybe I don't get out much but I haven't seen any witch burnings nor gotten laughed at for believing that the world is round lately. I have to admit that there are some problems today, like how it's more important to care about some peoples feelings rather than objectivity amongst other things and how some people shouldn't be allowed to speak because you don't agree with them. But in the end many problems have been around for a long time, just that they fluctuate and come back wearing different colors. And for the record, you will find plenty of close-minded individuals outside of America, the main difference being that they might be close-minded about different topics or have different standpoints.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 7:45 pm

Arguing is working together to solve problems. Solutions, including compromises, are achieved through argument.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 8:04 pm

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A closed mind is like a fortress without eyes or scouts. It believes itself prepared for anything and never sees nor reacts appropriately to the force that destroys it.

All things in moderation. Science shows us how to think. Be skeptical and doubtful of new knowledge but unafraid to alter your perceptions when necessary for real truth.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 1:47 pm

A closed mind is like a fortress without eyes or scouts. It believes itself prepared for anything and never sees nor reacts appropriately to the force that destroys it.

All things in moderation. Science shows us how to think. Be skeptical and doubtful of new knowledge but unafraid to alter your perceptions when necessary for real truth.
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The point of being open-minded is not "you must give every opinion equal consideration, you can't ever say anyone is wrong". It means you use the evidence you have to come to a conclusion (and, most importantly, modify the conclusion if new evidence comes up), instead of latching on to a conclusion and then twisting evidence around to fit it.

It has been extensively proven that the Earth is round; therefore we are not obliged to give credence to somebody claiming that the Earth is a cube unless they come up with some very compelling evidence.

However, there is no single economic theory that has been proven to fix everything (though there are a number that have been proven to not work). Sticking your fingers in your ears and going "Economic theory X is the best and will fix everything because magic!!" is a decidedly unproductive way to approach an argument.

This is hardly a new problem though, if anything people are becoming more and more open-minded.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 8:35 pm

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