Eh, OP - sorry, I am not going to re-open. Too much bickering, flames from people both pro and anti- Bethesda and then some grandstanding by the apparent arbiters of what is and is not linear .

To be honest, I;d rather go play Skyrim right now than try to tidy up this thread.
It's a game, and in spite of some flaws, a damned good one, imo. Sorry you found it restrictive. This has not been my experience, happily.