The fact that you can't take "ugly" people seriously because they can't tolerate beautiful people who flaunt their beauty.
It's not flaunting your beauty to be simply-beautiful.
The example I gave you about the "hair being SO fried" and stuff are actually quotes from my not-so-attractive, and bitter friend in reference to someone who is actually pretty and nice. I don't think it's right, or legitimate for someone to start insulting others simply for being better looking. The quotes I gave you guys were actual quotes from an actual person about someone else -- all of whom I personally know.
But I get what you mean. When I say "ugly" you immediately see them as the victim in my description. It's not like a girl can be pretty, smart AND nice, right?