be ya self

OMG THIS THIS THIS THIS!

First of all Gratz

2nd she likes u, showing interest in ur hobby and in u of course

3rd be urself ( cuz she likes u for how u are, so dont change that )

Gluckz mate !

if you take an arrow to the knee you're a guard, and guards cant propose im afraid, they all have to die violently protecting skyrim from dragons you see

And I don't know if this has been brought up yet or not...

SHE WANTS TO PLAY SKYRIM!

DEAR GOD, DO YOU KNOW THE HELL SOME OF US HAVE TO GO THROUGH?!

I HAD TO SIT THROUGH ROMANCE MOVIES, BECAUSE OUR ONLY OPTION WAS OBLIVION, WHICH SHE HATED.

YOU LUCKY LUCKY B******

Be ready to answer questions she might have and help along the way without sounding cocky or know-it-all. If you play a little have ask her where she would like you to go? What would you like me to do?

Let us know how everything goes if you want.

Oh one word of advice to anyone playing skyrim with anyone else:

1) Let them play the way they want to play, do not coach them, do not critique them. If they want your help with how they play the game, they WILL ask your advice or help.

I've just seen it too many times where completely normal people that are not controlling whatsoever become the most controlling psychos when it comes to backseat driving at video games.

That's another thing I'm a little worried about. I recently watched my brother start playing Skyrim. I didn't mean to, but...I just kept trying to tell him what to do. "Look, if you're going to use the Mage stone then you need to use destruction spells!"

And thank you all for the advice so far. When she and I meet next week, I'll post an update to this topic with how things went if anyone is interested.

See after I say that the texts stop, occasionally I get one more mentioning restraining orders. So your half way there, be yourself if she likes you she likes you*, just relax she's already coming over. See how it goes. Whatever you do don't huff, say your doing it wrong, grab the controller and say "like this". Also wear clothes, don't assume.


No, just no if it isn't a date don't over think it and treat it like one just go with the flow.


Nope, she will win a fair few, either because you let her or because she's better than you take both with good humour.

Best advice I can give you is to ignore every single response you've been given here, especially mine. You've already managed to get a girl to come over of her own free will, with the promise of one of the nerdiest things in existence. Most should be getting advice from you.

*Unless yourself isn't great in which case be someone cool, but not Shaft cool.

These.
Heed these wise words my friend. Good luck to you. :3

Remember that she's more interested in spending time with you than in playing a video game. Skyrim will be acting as a 3rd neutral party, like watching a movie or shopping together. A good way to keep from backseat gaming is to just be yourself, but as if you weren't playing skyrim.

Let her come to your place, but when she gets there pretend like you lost the game, then things might get interesting.

^This

You can sit there and be like her wiki guide or w/e to help her figure her way along.

Let her play the game, and help guide her through whenever she needs help, and drop a helpful hint every now and then. Do NOT constantly give her advice over her shoulder or tell her she's doing something the "wrong" way.

First thing is first, get off the internet for advice, Second do what your head tells you until you really like the girl.. then follow your heart

you see, the thing about man is that they don't think with their hearts, they think with their d!@%s

this topic brings me hope that I wont have to pretend to be someone else to ever get a girlfriend. Thank you

She's not coming over to play Skyrim.

She's there to spend time with you. Just be yourself.

you seem cool. just be your goofy self and the rest will fall into place.
As for Skyrim, my Mom and Grandma are mesmerized by it, so maybe this girl will be too.

Ditto.

Oh yep. She wants to get "closer to you."

You two will be slowly getting lovey-dovey...


Then BAM!!!!!

Your 150 hour saved gets saved over and you have to start all over.

The end.

I hadn't even considered whether or not I should start a new save or let her play my character. Frack.

Make sure you give her more attention than the game. but dont be creepy. leave out the dragonboner lines.

Don't sweat it man, just be yourself. It's always worked for me.

Don't forget to turn the nvde mods off.