as a player I have still been unable to make a character for whom ending Paarthurnax was the "right" decision. every time I think I've done it and head out towards that destiny something happens and I decide I like them too much for one reason or another to risk having to delete them because I hated the experience that much.
I'm a svcker and I believe that strength comes from staying your chosen course in the face of adversity, not cleansing the path so that no adversity ever exists. I admire the character too much and honestly feel like I never had enough invested in the "experts" that demand his end to feel like they had his strength of character or wisdom.
I know... way totally RP and... *shrug* sometimes I just can't overcome myself when I'm playing... it's a flaw and one I'm still tempting with each new character making the choice.
btw, you DO realize that Paarthurnax means, when translated, ambitious cruel overlord
Paar=ambitious
Thur=overlord
Nax=cruelty
Was he the ambitious cruel overlord and now has reformed or are we always that which we were and that which we are? Everyone has to answer that for themselves. The threads suggesting that he's just using the Dovahkiin to have the leadership he couldn't wrest from his brother's control have some justification, really. He IS a dragon and he DID warn us.
I'm just a svcker and can't kill him.