I think you guys are blowing this way out of proportion. Bethesda games have always been buggier than Megan Fox's acting, you like to ignore the fact that Fallout 3, Oblivion and even your precious Morrowind were virtually unplayable on release. Skyrim is buggy to be sure, but compared to its predecessors it is relatively stable.
I detest this comment for everything it states... Your giving too much credit to Megan Fox comparing her in any way to Bethesda.
That said, he is right: Oblivion was a steaming pile, put on everyone's doorstep and set on fire. 5 years on, I still cannot run it for 4 consecutive hours without a crash. I still love the game, but it's horribly buggy. Skyrim is above and beyond a better game.
Also, Skyrimmer... For the love of god, stop saying: Pink Elephant, it's just Elephant in the room, Pink elephants are what you see if your drunk. Honestly I see your point, but that is really bugging me.
As to your point: What do you want him to say? It's been said before: If Todd Howard were to comment he would open himself to an ocean of criticism. You don't draw undue attention to your flaws, because it leaves you vulnerable to reprisal later. Thats all it is.
And the reason it isn't thrown in his face is simply: Because there is a difference between the number of people unhappy, and the number of people who are very happy. It's vast.
Rant warning: This is not addressed at the OP, this is something that I have been avoiding saying for a long time though it really pisses me off.
On a side note: to address the people who say Bethesda is a crappy developer... No, Bethesda doesn't give a crap about you or me. No, we don't get perfect products. But, name me 5 gaming companies who offer an equal experience to bethesda products, at the same level of quality and exposure of bethesda products, in this genre. Now, I'll make your life impossible: Name me 5 companies who make perfect games without any bugs what-so-ever.
I'll go ahead and name Stardock for you, because I know it's on your tounge, even though they have showed through elemental they are as flawed as everyone else.
heck, while we're on Stardock, lets talk about their Gamer's Bill of rights. Wasn't that a wonderful marketing campaign? Isn't it awesome that they convinced people that they, as another multimillion dollar company, actually care, while other multimillion dollar companies don't?
Is this a matter of being soft on developers we like because of nostalgia? Not if we don't see issues?
If you find an issue and no one else really cares, does that mean your the one lone genius sailing a sea of ignorance? No, it means you had a bug no one else did, or cared about. Deal with it. Does that mean there arent' big bugs that haven't been addressed? Nope. PS3 owners have a huge reason to be upset.
Does that mean Todd Howard and Bunch should work over christmas to fix your game? No.
Are you taking time off of your family to go do some work Christmas Day? No? then stop telling other people to, and blaming them for bad workmanship if they don't.