I wholeheartedly agree that the murder of Grelod is absolutely uncalled for - the wishes of mentally disturbed children are not a reliable base for any decisions, especially about things like murder.
Anyway, you are mistaken in two parts:
Other people take care of lost and abandoned children in Skyrim. Two examples I can tell without much research: Falion and Balimund. I'm sure there are more people who adopted or at least took care of the orphans of this land.
And that psychopathic child in Windhelm was definitely not from a rich family. Only because the run-down and shabby house he lived in is called a "residence", it is definitely not a wealthy place. Of course, it's possible that the Arretino boy has squandered all the remaining wealth of his family on the hunt for the bits and pieces required for the Night Mother's Ritual, but that doesn't change the fact that the house is very small. Wealthy families have bigger places than that.
Fyi: using the console to advance through "innocence lost" should help you to keep Grelod alive. I don't think that she will die then, but her dialogue will probably be stuck at the 3 dialogue options in the DB style.
i did not see Falion and Balimund or other places yet i did river wood quests and some of the storm clock and some of the blades and some of Whiterun and
the companions . i am doing it city by city . but i bought honey side because i needed the labs , i revived the lost innocence quest just by chance
passing in the city of Windhelm i still did not started it .
i think you are wrong about master Arretino at a hard time like this when king
Ulfric send this letter to someone who lives just too near to the palace
http://elderscrolls.wikia.com/wiki/Letter_from_The_Steward
starting by master aventus , ending with With greatest respect, this not really a letter to a common young man . anyway you are comparing this
the other place his forced to go . i will not use the console i i will do the quest but not caring for its result morally considering the fiction
side of the subject . but the concept is not related . i would still imagine it happened like if i just did not listen to him and escorted him back
to safety i dont mind leaving him alone at his home either he looks old enough . guys his age ruled nations
and ulfric him self killed a boy his age . i got along with that . not easily but that is another story .
master aventus have absolutely no right to destroy Grelod that i one thing . using the dark brother hood is another crime so bad guys
here please your opinion is not worthy and you are considered criminal to the cause of the nords . that is final .
I'm glad somebody brought this up. The whole kill Greload thing is my pet peeve I have with Bethesda.
My Dovakhiin has a dozen assassin letters with his name in it and wants to finish with the dark brotherhood once and for all. But he doesn't murder an old lady just because she is difficult and nobody likes her. It's disgusting, and it would turn him into a pathetic hypocrite.
Bethesda went overboard with the whole evil=cool thing.
i happen to like her .
http://elderscrolls.wikia.com/wiki/Grelod_the_Kind
look into the eyes and notice the lips , pretty and caring and worthy of trust . in times of responsibility .
'the kind' - I think you're missing the irony.
Instead of trying to create a controversial thread by calling Grelod an angel - you should try sneaking into the orphanage and observing the way she treats the children. She beats, starves and threatens them, and also has plenty of verbal abuse left for her assistant.
haw old are you ? you either facing the same issues at home which completely normal dont panic , or its just bad memories you had since you mum needed to protect you from real evil .
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same to you . i guess you should be locked up with those kids for a week or 2 and i will sneak and calculate the casulites . her assisstent is not a slave
she can leave i guess she loves her maybe cause she was one of the little girls she saved . plus she was so sad and got crazy when Grelod was hurt
that means she loves her . she did not thank the charechter . and said ok am in charge now .
nice teeth btw .
I say kill the beotch, she deserves it, obviously none of you that say let her live had to stay in a orphanage or foster care, most of those people deserve to die, slowly, painfully, and alone.
i will manege to stay in the world of the game in this thread , so to me am with the nords and a storm lock unit .
1_ you will do the crime of murder with no rightfull cause at all
2_am sorry if i messed up with people feelings here . i lived like master Arretino i know haw he feels .
but then a death sentence to them ? just because life svcks so bad and its not thier fault ? good or bad is somthing not everyone agree on
but even if we did . dont they exsist together anywhere?
what is the other choice for them ? the rat way ?
i happened to live with mother , am 42 male single retired . the fact is i nevver attack her you see ? but i get violent at things . there is
wars all around me guys . when i get so violent she get scared and she have high blood pressure . she gets sick at times
and it effect her health . i cry now because i hurted her in indirect way . i never ment to point my anger at her it just blows out of me .
i went to mental clinic for long long time . i went back because she cant be left alone and no one here to care about her with the love
i have to her . now i feel am evil you see ? if she was stronger she wouldnt have got effected by my rage seizures.
it cuts both ways into me . when i see her ill i die and when i think i was a reason to it , makes me feel ... ohhh i cant reveal that
maybe i dont even know haw to express it .
come and kill me if you want . that will save her? she got no one but me . you will then let her to be abandoned
3_ dose that means you are with the assassins now ? say hello to astrid . she got really hot buddy . i would liked being under her strong command
but we go diffrent ways in this game . and in this life