Doesn't matter who your talking about either men or women. People can just agree on these things. People just can't get specific enough I guess. Oh well...
Well duh. We all use the same labels. But the definition of that label is different for each person. For example - my number one criteria for what I find attractive in a man is humor. I am always drawn to men who can make me laugh (intentionally

). However, what
I find humorous - may not be the same for another female. So the guy I find very attractive because he's amusing, relaxed, seems intelligent and confidant might be someone some other woman, with a different sense of humor (or no sense of humor) might find annoying and unattractive, or the independent streak I find a to be a requirement she would hate, because she's the type of woman who feels better if she and her boyfriend are sort of doing everything together as a couple, all the time.
So yeah, there is no pat answer to what do women find attractive. And also, just because you find someone attractive initially, because they meet some variable mental/physical "chemistry" criteria at first doesn't mean that as other qualities come out as you spend time with them, that the attraction will grow.