What do women find attractive?

Post » Fri May 27, 2011 11:11 am

First Live? And what no PSN :P

Nope. PSN really has no girls. All of the women you see in home are men pretending to be them for attention. It's true.

Really though, it's hard for me to explain what I find attractive, since every guy I've dated has looked completely different from the last, and I thought they were all attractive...
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 3:46 am

Nope. PSN really has no girls. All of the women you see in home are men pretending to be them for attention. It's true.

Well, it is hilarious how desperate nerds will flock round you just because your avatar is a woman. One guy didn;t even care when I switche dto a male avatar, and then back again, as long as the avatar was female. :nuts: I haven't been on since, the people in the shooters are much more sane.
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Post » Thu May 26, 2011 9:21 pm

Okay, here, I'll boil it down for you.

Men like briasts. Women like muscles.

The end.


Yep. If you're a woman go for lolo ferrari implants, if you're a guy start doing steroids.
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 8:38 am

Yep. If you're a woman go for lolo ferrari implants, if you're a guy start doing steroids.


That was boiled down. :P

It all works up from there though. Men like briasts, yeah, duh...but that also means we like nurturing women, a capable child-bearer, and in general the basic female archetype of being a companion. Women like muscles, yeah, duh...but that also means they like someone who can provide and protect a family, and in general the basic male archetype of being a leader.

By no means are these set in stone and what all women and all men everywhere like...but this is a very general, basic, and even primal view. It's easy to make the connection back to "caveman" times, hunter gatherers, and tribal societies which we all trace back to.

I think, also, the reason so many people think women like men with money is because in our modern society money and financial security have sort of become a different kind of "muscles".
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 12:23 am

It's also because women pick up on hints, so they assume men will too.


You have described the basis for the whole entire problem of men and women getting together. Men don't Hint, so we are not programmed to pick up on hints. And, the things that we say that women think are hints are not hints. Women expecting Hints to be an effective form of communication are deluding themselves.

So, ladies, make our lives easier. When you do find us attractive, tell us. Don't hint, we won't get it. Ever.
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 5:44 am

You have described the basis for the whole entire problem of men and women getting together. Men don't Hint, so we are not programmed to pick up on hints. And, the things that we say that women think are hints are not hints. Women expecting Hints to be an effective form of communication are deluding themselves.


http://zs1.smbc-comics.com/comics/20100208.gif

So much for the subject of women.
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 2:06 am

No gamer girls around here... They think I'm childish because I use the computer for more than just Facebook.
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 7:20 am

I once dated a guy who wasn't a gamer once. He thought games were for kids. :( You can bet that didn't last long. :P

Thankfully, my fiance is very much into games. :wub: To answer the original question, besides being a gamer, he should have a nice face and a nice behind, and must be caring and intelligent.



My husband thinks I should be doing something "worthwhile" with my time instead of video games or writing fanfics :rofl: He said if I put as much effort into politics or religion I could change the world - :rofl: !!!
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 12:59 pm

I usually find these sorts of topics redundant. People all generally agree on an overarching series of qualities. Doesn't matter who your talking about either men or women. People can just agree on these things. People just can't get specific enough I guess. Oh well...

I mean with the qualities listed it seems like every male should be a clone of every other, but that doesn't happen. So somewhere communication is breaking down. Unless it is correct and were all deluding ourselves into thinking ourselves different. Hmm... must solve this. Been bugging me for quite some time. Made more confusing by people not all liking the same person. Perhaps... there is a missing... social factor. What said person has done. Otherwise based on these descriptions most men are clones. Very odd. Or is it obvious and I just don't understand? Could be possible, and has happened before. Too many variables. Need more data.




The missing variable is chemistry.


You're confusing girls with 12 year old boys and the FBI. :P



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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 10:40 am

Every time I see the question "what do women find attractive?" I find it pretty unattractive.

i got a qustion. why do all the girls expect the men to ask them out and give you little to no clues that they like you?

I imagine part of it is remnants to society's older Men>Women standards. It's only fairly recently that women are considered allowed to have opinions or make decisions, and I'm sure what they're taught growing up still has factors of "don't say anything, the man decides if it's a relationship" in it.
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 9:41 am

Bottom line is men are attractive. All of 'em. :wub:
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 1:58 am

Because girls, just like guys, don't want to be rejected. So if they came right out with 'I think you're hot and want to date you', guys being the idiots they are would just say no. And then she'd be embarrassed and feel horrible.


I'm a guy who mistakenly always waits for the girl to make the first move. Cause I svck at that stuff.

I guess I'm screwed. :(
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 5:46 am

You have described the basis for the whole entire problem of men and women getting together. Men don't Hint, so we are not programmed to pick up on hints. And, the things that we say that women think are hints are not hints. Women expecting Hints to be an effective form of communication are deluding themselves.

So, ladies, make our lives easier. When you do find us attractive, tell us. Don't hint, we won't get it. Ever.



If a woman strokes one leg with the other while sitting and talking to you, or touches her hair or face = go for it, she wants you. Hint explained. Most women use body language, some times it is unintentional. If a man is talking to us and we think he is attractive, we will subconsciously touch our hair. If we are looking at a man thinking he is sixy, and we are sitting, it is a subconscious thing to stroke one leg against the other. So keeping your eyes on body language clears up a lot of the mystery of "hinting."
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 10:45 am

If a woman strokes one leg with the other while sitting and talking to you, or touches her hair or face = go for it, she wants you. Hint explained. Most women use body language, some times it is unintentional. If a man is talking to us and we think he is attractive, we will subconsciously touch our hair. If we are looking at a man thinking he is sixy, and we are sitting, it is a subconscious thing to stroke one leg against the other. So keeping your eyes on body language clears up a lot of the mystery of "hinting."

This
in fact, us ladies can have whole unspoken conversations with each other during the course of a social gathering, and MOST men are either oblivious or uninterested.
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 6:01 am

That was boiled down. :P

It all works up from there though. Men like briasts, yeah, duh...but that also means we like nurturing women, a capable child-bearer, and in general the basic female archetype of being a companion. Women like muscles, yeah, duh...but that also means they like someone who can provide and protect a family, and in general the basic male archetype of being a leader.

By no means are these set in stone and what all women and all men everywhere like...but this is a very general, basic, and even primal view. It's easy to make the connection back to "caveman" times, hunter gatherers, and tribal societies which we all trace back to.

I think, also, the reason so many people think women like men with money is because in our modern society money and financial security have sort of become a different kind of "muscles".


Hunter gatherer socities were not about being "caveman" types.

The leader or "alpha" in a hunter gatherer band is someone who is given leadership not someone who physically intimidates. The same goes for dog packs (the species with whom we coevolved). The alpha male (or female aswell in the case of dogs) isn't the largest animal and doesn't go around physically intimidating the rest, the other dogs actively submit to the alpha. They choose to do it.
The dogs who do physically fight and compete with each other are competing over the middle rungs on the pecking order.

Basically there are two competing 'forces' at work in males. One is to be able to physically compete with other males for the social middle ground, this is the pressure for strongly masculine traits. The other is to be attractive to females (i.e. more "boyish"), and able to command trust from the males, and this gives the male a chance at the alpha role.

The leader of a hunter gather band looks like a politician or a rock star, not like a conan type.
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Post » Thu May 26, 2011 9:13 pm

I find intelligence and knowledge attractive. Also a sense of humor, but not to the point of being a constant "funny guy". That's just annoying.
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 10:30 am

http://zs1.smbc-comics.com/comics/20100208.gif

So much for the subject of women.

Might be funny if you're male... I find this highly disturbing.
...one
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...three
Now it's hilarious. ^_^
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 6:30 am

http://zs1.smbc-comics.com/comics/20100208.gif


That reminds me, why are women so vicious? Broad generalizations coming up, you've been warned. When a girl hates another girl, it's on a whole other level than when a guy hates another guy. It is pure hate, not "man I'd like to kick his ass" more like "I want to kill her". I have never seen two guys get in a fight that was more brutal than two girls. Hell, guys in a fight where bottles are smashed over heads aren't as brutal as girls. With girls I've seen eye gouging, hair pulling, repeatedly smashing her face into the pavement, bloody scratch marks on the face. It's insane.
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 2:05 am

That reminds me, why are women so vicious? Broad generalizations coming up, you've been warned. When a girl hates another girl, it's on a whole other level than when a guy hates another guy. It is pure hate, not "man I'd like to kick his ass" more like "I want to kill her". I have never seen two guys get in a fight that was more brutal than two girls. Hell, guys in a fight where bottles are smashed over heads aren't as brutal as girls. With girls I've seen eye gouging, hair pulling, repeatedly smashing her face into the pavement, bloody scratch marks on the face. It's insane.



Where have you gone for these cat fights? Hair pulling is not brutal. Most girls hair pull and slap for the fight - but afterwards, when we are stewing and brewing about that other girl and what she has done, that is when the real evil starts coming out...BUWAHAHA !!! - Just kidding.
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 6:07 am

Bottom line is men are attractive. All of 'em. :wub:


even me?

Before you answer, remember, I have armor and a axe!

http://i305.photobucket.com/albums/nn234/titanmike357/Armor/PICT0120.jpg


http://i305.photobucket.com/albums/nn234/titanmike357/Armor/PICT0125.jpg

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Feel free to swoon over me, I can literately be a knight in shining armor, if you are taking about the 990-1066 era.
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 12:37 am

Where have you gone for these cat fights? Hair pulling is not brutal. Most girls hair pull and slap for the fight - but afterwards, when we are stewing and brewing about that other girl and what she has done, that is when the real evil starts coming out...BUWAHAHA !!! - Just kidding.


By hair pulling I mean ending up with a fistful of hair not attached to the head anymore. This was at my highschool, parties and the bar. Granted, at parties and the bar there are always fights, but the women always seem to be crazier than the men.
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 6:47 am

even me?

Before you answer, remember, I have armor and a axe!

http://i305.photobucket.com/albums/nn234/titanmike357/Armor/PICT0120.jpg


http://i305.photobucket.com/albums/nn234/titanmike357/Armor/PICT0125.jpg

http://i305.photobucket.com/albums/nn234/titanmike357/Truck/PICT0075.jpg

Especially you. :wub:

And it's ok,I have no plans to fight you. :P
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 12:27 am

even me?

Before you answer, remember, I have armor and a axe!

http://i305.photobucket.com/albums/nn234/titanmike357/Armor/PICT0120.jpg


http://i305.photobucket.com/albums/nn234/titanmike357/Armor/PICT0125.jpg

http://i305.photobucket.com/albums/nn234/titanmike357/Truck/PICT0075.jpg

You look really badass in the first two pictures. Me, I always look younger than I actually am.

I'll keep mALX1's advice in mind.
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 12:00 am

Bottom line is men are attractive. All of 'em. :wub:


Why, thank you :D
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Post » Fri May 27, 2011 7:53 am

Especially you. :wub:

And it's ok,I have no plans to fight you. :P


feel the mod love!!!
*:nono: don't discuss warn levels*
oops sorry.

yes I know, I got to wait a few more months.


You look really badass in the first two pictures. Me, I always look younger than I actually am.

I'll keep mALX1's advice in mind.


Thanks.
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