1 steam does update in game
2 when steam updates in game it pulls my cpu to 75% usage
3 it uses 4 gig of ram when updateing
4 when updating my fps drops to 10
1) No it doesn't. Steam will never update when a Steam game is running. Updates and downloads are even paused if you launch a Steam game at the same time.
2) No, doesn't. Barely even tipping single percentage here on my six year old system. If it's using that much, then something is very, very wrong at your end.
3) See above. Something is very, very wrong. Steam will never use that much. For the reccord I have only 2GBs and can carry on as normal during a Steam update.
4)Again. Somethings wrong. As I said Steam will never, ever update when playing a Steam game.
Let me ask you two things.
1)Are you actually playing a Steam game when this is happening? Or is it a non Steam game?
2)Are you sure it's Steam updating? No, windows or your virusscan?