[Nancy RIP]

Yes another one, but this one honestly has me puzzled.

This girl who asked me out once, messages me all the time on Facebook, but hardly talks to me in real life.

Like its everyday and semi flirtatious, but always about mundane things. :/

When I see her in school she ignores me and won't even acknowledge me. I just don't get it. Why?

I like her, but...

[Ricky Rayner]

She's probably just nervous.


Or she's afraid of what her friends would think if she liked you.


Or she's just being mean.


High school girls are the most confusing creatures on this planet. Good luck.

[naomi]

Man the [censored] up dude. Seriously.

[Siobhan Wallis-McRobert]

Why don't you just ask her why? That's the only way you'll get an actual answer.....and if she doesn't want her friends to know she talks to you, then she is not worth it.

[Monika]

Muster your courage and just tell her straight out "WTF, GIRL"

I know a girl like that, an old friend from elementary school. I talk to her quite a bit on Facebook and she greets me at high school when we see each other, but we never actually converse in person.

[^_^]

Muster your courage and just tell her "WTF, GIRL"

"GIRL YOU BE TRIPPIN". Just go talk to her.

[Eibe Novy]

Ah, the trials and tribulations of highschool...

Never again.

[Heather Dawson]

Man the [censored] up dude. Seriously.

Truer words have never been spoken. As much as I enjoy the endless parade of threads that could easily be answered by talking to the actual girl involved, it's seriously time to either man up or hand in your testicles so they can be redistributed to someone who'll actually use them.

[Naughty not Nice]

***WARNING: No sugar coating below***

You have three options:

1. Stop being stupid and just ask her out

2. Be alone for the rest of your life because you'll always continue being a gutless loser who can't string together asking someone out due to fear.

3. End up with some [censored] woman who abuses you, takes advantage of you, and generally treats you like crap, but she took initiative on you so you weren't afraid and end up too afraid of losing her to dare cross her (letting her step all over you in the process).

[Chris Cross Cabaret Man]

Truer words have never been spoken. As much as I enjoy the endless parade of threads that could easily be answered by talking to the actual girl involved, it's seriously time to either man up or hand in your testicles so they can be redistributed to someone who'll actually use them.

AWWW, but how will we be entertained if that happens

(Were just teasing man )

[Motionsharp]

I do try and talk and talk to but... She just doesn't talk to me. Wha?

[Brentleah Jeffs]

I do try and talk and talk to but... She just doesn't talk to me. Wha?

Maybe she's embarrassed to hang out with you in public?

[Sun of Sammy]

I do try and talk and talk to but... She just doesn't talk to me. Wha?

Then ask her on Facebook why she doesnt talk to you at school. None of this requires outside input or assistance.

[Nice one]

Un-friend her and then ignore her. It sounds like she's playing you for the attention, which means she wants attention from her peers at school and not necessarily from you. I don't know the first thing about you or that girl, but I know that girls that age like to be seen to be popular and are more than willing to manipulate others to meet that end.

[Joe Bonney]

Trust me, she isn't the sort of girl that manipulates attention out of people.

[lucile davignon]

JAHO!!!!!!!!!!

[jessica breen]

Yes another one, but this one honestly has me puzzled.

This girl who asked me out once, messages me all the time on Facebook, but hardly talks to me in real life.

Like its everyday and semi flirtatious, but always about mundane things. :/

When I see her in school she ignores me and won't even acknowledge me. I just don't get it. Why?

I like her, but...

When I was in elementary school this is something that I did.

I was just ultra shy and nervous when it came to a girlfriend back then. I was completely fine with them up until it turned out we were dating and I became skittish.

It sounds like she's super shy too. On Facebook, while already in conversation, kind of slide into asking her about it. Don't be blatant or bold when asking because you'll never get the truth or probably even an answer.


However, this was back when I was in elementary school. What grade are you in now? Because it most likely shouldn't be happening anymore.

[Izzy Coleman]

Trust me, she isn't the sort of girl that manipulates attention out of people.

If it's that important and you're that keen on her then go and talk it out with her. If she feels a similar way then you'll get to the bottom of it, but if you make your position clear and she still fails to clearly communicate her position then I don't think it's worth the stress. Heck, it ain't worth the stress.

[Naomi Lastname]

Trust me, she isn't the sort of girl that manipulates attention out of people.

Is it hard to hold conversations with her? Like for example, when you are talking and you ask her questions, does she usually only give one word answers and rarely add much more to the conversation?

[Lakyn Ellery]

Do this right now.

Facebook
Message girl
"So why don't you talk to me when we are at school, but you do all the time on Facebook?"
Wait for response

[Sammi Jones]

Grade 11/12

When I talk to the conversation is sort of... Weird. It fluctuates between making jokes and then being awkward.

[hannah sillery]

Do this right now.

Facebook
Message girl
"So why don't you talk to me when we are at school, but you do all the time on Facebook?"
Wait for response

That ^ but I'd do it in person. Doing it on-line you'll miss out on a lot of un-spoken communication, and there is a tendency for people to behave differently on-line than they do in real life.

[Dan Scott]

Take her out to dinner! But have her pay the bill!

[Sophie Payne]

Take her out to dinner! But have her pay the bill!

Pure genius...

[Zosia Cetnar]

I like her, but...

Is there a girl you've talk to and didn't like?

Or didn't make a thread about?