You are lacking in experience with tabletop RPGs then.
No computer game can even approach the freedom of a tabletop RPG.
Thats why i love people who keep saying this games an RPG and this ones an RPG, you have to have played pen and paper RPGS to get a benchmark of what Role Playing Game actually means, pen and paper games set the standard for RPG's not computer games, most computer games have RPG elements but are in no way full fledged RPG's, pen and paper RPG's are basically the same, just different storylines and mechanics but they are games based on playing the role of a character.
Computer game RPG's are just hack and slashers or shooters with RPG elements, skyrim has great elements going for it, such as the fact that you can actually travel around the world, unlike dragon age that you followed a path, then it loaded for an encounter in the same terrain constantly, but it did have better role playing interaction than skyrim, the dialogue is way to limited, which means you have no real options of the outcome of the verbal interaction between you and the npc, its very limited which gives you basically no real options. The fact that the guards constantly repeat over and over, dont i know you, and you keep getting harrased over something that is no longer applicable to the game but its stuck in the programming, plus the fact once your made a jarl, they dont even recognise the fact even though your told the guards will be informed of your status and they still keep saying, dont i know you, pay your fine or go to jail.
This doesnt happen in pen and paper RPG's, plus you dont walk along and go, oh no another mine/dungeon and the only reason to go in is to get exp, in witcher even though you only play geralt, you get more and better interaction, even with the peasants, plus you have some real purpose behind your actions, skyrim your the dragonborn, not a single person could care less, your a rare individual, you save towns and villages from dragons, but not a soul could care less, if this was a pen and paper RPG, id get to the point of just saying hand me a ton of gold or your town burns, im mass effect 1 your actions can lead you to make some decisive choices, let the council live, or die, and then they default to you to make a choice who you want to represent earth, because hell you just save alot of peoples lives and uncovered a mass extermination of life in the galaxy and then in 2 you actually get to take your character from 1 to play and the choices you made in one follow over, thats closer to real RPG elements.
Skyrim just seems like it needed another year or more of work and beta testing to get it right, it has the possibility to be a real game of the year not a choice because the rest were crap, and it was the best of a bad bunch.
Falloutnv at least had a storyline that gave you purpose and a direction, and your choice of factions made a difference, in skyrim i can be leader of the mage and theives guild and dark brotherhood without anyone raising an eyebrow, so far ive massacred tons of stormcloaks but i can still walk into ulfrics throne room and have tea and scones with him, i could become the deadric lord of all thing really really bad and awful and shooting people in the knee with arrows, and stride through the countryside slaughtering civilians,and the guards would only care if you accidently hit one of them during a fight or stole something from a town, and i could still walk into the market and buy a loaf of bread with no interaction.
An full on RPG it isnt does it have limited RPG elements yes, but in no way should it be sold as an RPG and if this is what computer game companies set as a standard for a computer game RPG, then they set their standards low and still failed to acheive them. Its like saying this car has air conditioning and all it has is a small dashboard fan, or this house has room for improvement, and its a ruin.
Mass effect, witcher and dragon age each had their own RPG elements which are more prevalent than skyrim, but still dont make them true RPG's either but still with elements, just because skyrim has a large map and what comes with it, an RPG makes it not. If computer game companies think that what their presenting is an RPG, then maybe they should think of a new name, to describe what they call RPG.