Man, cool out. Bethesda may not always make the best decisions (though often I'd blame ZeniMax for that), but when it comes to the modding community they've always done right by us. You can expect the Creation Kit in the coming weeks, most likely along with a massive amount of documentation and perhaps video tutorials on how to do every little thing you could ever ask.
Personally, I'm not even going to blame ZeniMax:
So, yes, Bethesda has their modding tools, and we want them. But we already know that the game itself crashes on some machines -- there are a zillion possible combinations of adapters and drivers out there, and even if every person in Bethesda was using six unique machines that would still only be six hundred machines they would have been testing on. (And I doubt they have been doing anything so non-productive.)
So, anyways, I think that some people really want the game to be stable on their machines, and I'm sure that's tying up Bethesda's testers and developers and release engineers and so on. And, the fixes they apply to address machine problems are probably going to be relevant to the creation kit also (unless we really want an unfair situation where only some people can mod the game).
Plus there's the whole thing of getting it to install cleanly, fixing up any bugs that everyone just knew to avoid, and (hopefully) writing some reference and tutorial docs. (And, if only they would release solid documentation their updated nif and animation file formats... anyways...)
Anyways, we know they have bugs to fix, and they do not have anywhere near the number of people that we (the modding community) has.
I can certainly wish for more than they can give, but I am also inclined to be forgiving when they do not or maybe cannot.