You're free to think whatever you'd like, buddy. I've learned my lesson a long time ago, there's no use arguing with the people who have already made up their minds and decided that they're right.
Sure there is, it's the ultimate challenge. If their argument is baseless and they have nothing to back it up, then sure, what's the point, but there is plenty of evidence at our fingertips to display how ESO is a departure from the type TES gameplay and art-style many of us love. We take that one step further and say that upsets us. On the other side of the aisle others say it doesn't upset them and a tiny minority say they actually prefer the new direction (I have only seen one person say that and he has yet to give a reasoned argument why he prefers it).
That said, I personally have no mindset in stone, and I am not-so-secretly hoping that ZOS is going to turn all of this around and WOW me (no pun intended) in the end. You see, I desperately want a TES MMO. I have always wanted one ever since I played Morrowind (Arena was my first TES but I didn;t start thinking of it in MMO terms til MW). But, there are some caveats to that, I'm not just going to be satisfied with a typical MMO slapped with a TES coat of lore. I want a true departure from standard AAA MMOs and to see the features I love about TES (some of which are the first-person view, the real-time melee, archery and magic combat, the overall realistic fantasy feel, etc.). Short of having those things, I'm not sure I can bring myself to buy or play this game. On the other hand, you might not care about that being left out. But that's just you, and I'm just me. Our two viewpoints do indeed represent two sides of a pretty major debate going on, you must admit.
Multiplayer and mods don't mix. It's a technical constrain, there is no work around to that.
They do indeed. All you have to do is look at Curse, a company that started out revolving completely around managing mods for WoW. Now they are a major gaming network. Check it out: http://www.curse.com/addons/wow
How many times on this forum now are we going to hear "that's technically impossible" and then someone shows blatant evidence to the contrary. In the end it is code. NOTHING is impossible.