I agree. Slaps are sixual stimulation and makes a guy even more aroused, and the girl will know how far he's trying to take it.

I've made this mistake before. I came to the forums with a relationship question and ignored their advice. I just wanted to hear someone else say what I was thinking, but my thinking was wrong.

If you come here and, after three pages of everyone agreeing on what you should do, you don't take the advice and put things into motion, we're going to have to assume that you don't actually like this girl, don't want anything between the two of you to happen, and you just want 15 minutes (or three days) of attention on the forums.

We're all friends here. Friends don't let friends not go see a movie with a girl that has previously asked him out.

Of course I'll go to her house and who knows, maybe that will be the right time to JAHO.

I've made this mistake before. I came to the forums with a relationship question and ignored their advice. I just wanted to hear someone else say what I was thinking, but my thinking was wrong.

There are some mistakes you just have to make. Can't do everything in life perfect.

OK, yes it's a mistake. I know it's a mistake, but there are certain things in life where you know it's a mistake but you don't really know it's a mistake because the only way to really know it's a mistake is to make the mistake and look back and say 'yep, that was a mistake.' So really, the bigger mistake would be to not make the mistake, because then you'd go your whole life not knowing if something is a mistake or not.

This is true, and now this is awkward...how did you know?