I got excited because at first I thought this said 'explosive/fancy weddings'. I think its about time I put down the vodka.

What he said.

I still want a '67ish Mustang or a 50's Corvette convertible.

Silly OP, don't you know there are no women on the internet? We're all fat, balding men who try to get your hopes up so you'll buy those *cough* enhancement *cough* drugs from our websites.





Shoes - No idea.

Hair - Got a slight weakness for gingers, but it's not important. Don't care for long hair, but again... Not important.

Chest hair - Good. Facial hair - Better.

Metrosixuals - Hell no. He's got to be at least part Neanderthal.



...you. Congratulations.

Also, I'm a bit weird for a straight bloke in the sense that I love shopping, but I'm not in to cars at all. I find them impressive and I'd love a nice car, but they don't really interest me.

The better the car, the larger your [censored]. True story.

Shoes are awesome, you can never have too many. Even if my wardrobe disagrees, and the (large) part of the landing being used as an overflow area. I'm afraid to count them, and that's after I donated a bunch to the local charity box.

Er, not my type.

etc.

Yes. Mostly.

OK, I've got a question for the ladies as well, why are those of you that are married (or engaged/ seriously involved) so much more flirtier than those of you that are single?
Seriously, when I meet a female I can always tell her level of involvement by how flirty she is. If she flirts a little, she's got a boyfriend; if she's really flirty, she's married; if she doesn't flirt at all, she's single.
Note, there are always exceptions, but I've found this to be a trend that I've noticed.

I want a Honda Element and a Model A.

Dunno. I like cute shoes. Which is funny, because I got rid of a lot of them and mostly wear flip flops or Chucks to work, because I can.

Hair - Nah, don't care. Current bf has a buzz cut, works for me. I've dated guys with long hair, no hair, curly hair... just not an issue.

Chest hair - like it. Facial hair - little bit of scruff is fine, don't mind well tended goatees. Do not like big burly gnarly long beards, don't like only-mustaches, don't like weird Abe Lincoln-esqu jaw only beards...

Metrosixuals... I can barely stand to waste a ton of time on my own self, beyond making sure my hair gets cut in a style I like, the occasional pedicure, I wear a small amount of make up that never takes more than 1 minute or two to apply, etc. I like jeans and slouchy clothes and am not too zoned in on fashion now that I don't work in a super boring corporate environment. If a guy spends more time on his looks than I do mine, I am probably not going to have much patience with it.

A friend of mine had one of those for a while, but finally got rid of it after his wife kept referring to the style as "the village idiot".

i'm not so certain it's the shoe thats responsible for that

Not into shoes at all.
Not fussed about hair colour.
Beards are nice, a bit of chest hair is nice too but not a fan of the carpet chest.
Probably no to metrosixuals. I have a feeling any true metrosixual male would be repulsed by the state of my skanky falling apart shoes.

Can't really help you there. I don't flirt with others when I'm involved with someone, so...

Maybe they feel more "safe" flirting when you won't be able to demand anything more of them? Just a guess.

I would prefer something more along the lines of the Aston Martin DB5. Never really liked those American cars.

Shoes - Don't care. They look nice in the box or on the shelf but they're too expensive and too uncomfortable to wear. My sneakers are comfy and that's all I care about there.
Hair color doesn't matter. Style depends on the person. Some men need hair down to their waist while others look best bald.
Chest hair is good. Back hair is bad. Facial hair should be banned because it friggen hurts.
Metrosixuals- No.

Not as much as shaving it when you have sensitive skin.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UW8vZEF4UA0

Which leads to the question: women, what's the deal with you and cars?

Considering the number of pairs of shoes I own, I'm sure there's some irony (or something) in that I seldom actually wear any of them since I don't wear shoes indoors and I avoid venturing outside whenever possible... nevertheless, I shan't be parted from them! Even when I do, it's usually the same old worn-out pair of flip-flops: the others are nice in theory but when it comes down to it, I tend to defer to comfort...

I'm not into shoes.

Hair- As long as it's not a mullet (ironic or otherwise), or gelled to the point of being able to hold M & M's in it, it's probably fine. I do like bald though.

Chest hair- yes, please.

Metrosixuals- it depends. If a guy is really into peacocking/dandy-ism, then I hope he's at least kind of eccentric or original about it, and not just dunking himself in cologne, self-tanner, and plucking his eyebrows.

I just don't get the obsession people seem to have with certain physical traits in a mate. The guy I'm with (have been with for over 6 years) is NOTHING like what I thought I wanted. You just end up with whomever you attracted to/fall in love with. *shrug* But to answer your questions:

I have no idea why I love shoes, honestly. But I do love shoes. The more hoker-ish or odd the more I seem to like them. But I own none of those types of shoes and only wear flip flops, tennis shoes, and the rare flat dress shoe... but only because the ones I really like aren't my style and they hurt your feet.

Hair color? Eh.. I seem to prefer darker hair and rarely am ever attracted to someone who's blonde (whether natural or dyed). Style - I prefer cleaner cuts, and absolutely can't stand the emo hair in the face thing. (Though I'd be more worried that someone my age had that hair style then anything else.)

Chest hair - it's fine so long as it's just the chest. Facial hair - Depends on the guy really. Some look silly with it and some look silly without it.

Metro - No. Absolutely no. I'm not a fussy female and I sure don't want my man to be. I want him to take care of himself but not be prissy about it.


And I love old cars. I mean really really love to look at them and want to rebuild my bf's 79 corvette... but I know nothing about it. I'm interested enough to learn, but haven't put the effort into it yet. I'd rather go to an antique car show then shoe shopping, btw.

Only thing I could think of is that women tend to have this irrational need to feel wanted by every freaking man they see. And having a man at home means they have the stability they want but they still want to feel "desired" so they flirt. Personally, I don't flirt with anyone but my bf and have absolutely no desire to have anyone want me, so I'm just taking a guess here.

That's simple, by the time they're married they know that they have at least some leverage over men. Before that they just lack the self-confidence to flirt.

Although my opinion is invalid because I'm a guy, despite what people say about these answers being very varied, I do think that there must be some common concensus of what is (generally) currently being considered as attractive currently

For example, it seems that men are generally more attracted to slimmer women (as many people know, it wasn't always this way)

As another example, it seems a majority of women are attracted to women who noticeably take effort in their appearance (i.e. clothes, hair)

Of course, not everything is as general as the above might me, such as chest hair

EDIT: There should be a poll to see how many guys comment on this,

I have a question to women find lower back hair attractive, disgusting, or do you not really care? I have heard so many guys at school talk about this and it made me wonder as well.
As a guy I also wonder what it is guys find so cool and interesting about cars, really it is just a car it gets you from point A to point B.

I don't need to understand cars, instead I understand airplanes and jets.

I also think this picture is relevant to this topic: http://www.motifake.com/image/demotivational-poster/1105/understanding-women-women-understanding-volume-one-demotivational-posters-1305609488.jpg I'm laughing thinking about it...