And it happens no more often than a Dragon attack. Everyone easily handles those, these vampire attacks are taken care of just as easily.
And the frequency of the attacks drops dramatically once you complete either side of the DLC (Vampires or Dawnguard), as that side is seen to have "won", attacks from the opposite side don't happen nearly as often.
Seriously though. It really is not as bad as everyone is making it out to be.
Well I will continue to see what people are saying. There's at least a month before I can play it however much I want to, so I will see how wound up people are getting after a month of it, not just a couple of days while the novelty value is still present.
Even if the attacks do drop off that dramatically (again I've heard contrary reports about this), this seems to imply feeling compelled to get it done. The beauty of an integrated DLC - a good idea in and off itself - woiuld be being able to complete it at a leisurely pace alongside the core game quests. Not rush through it before everybody dies.
I am rather sceptical of your comments after you said everyone is praising it - I've visited several forums where people are indeed praising the general content, but plenty of people seem unhappy with this particular situation.