Women, ladies, girls and females: A little guy question for

Post » Sun May 13, 2012 3:03 pm

Note: This is not to transform the forums into a sixual modeling gig or a flame war and whatnot. Trust me, I am actually doing a bit of research here concerning women and their general perception of what is "attractive or not." Is there a better place to do this? Yes, a gaming forum isn't exactly the primary location to do this. Have I done this in more appropiate places? Yes, I have. I got results, I want a few more answers before I come to a conclusion. I already feel ashamed, but the person I am dealing with knows I visit the BGS forums, so she insisted I ask everyone.

Not to mention I have a friend of mine with me that is debating whether or not my "theory" is correct. She insists it's not the case, and I insist that indeed the results would be what I expect. The bet? $7. Pretty cheap, but hey, who cares.

I know the majority of people here are guys, but I have no doubt some of you are women. So I ask the women, mostly. Guys can chime in if they like, although I doubt it would be more to their liking unless, you know.

Which guy is most attractive and why? Which guy would you choose to date and why? It has to be one or the other.

http://www.malemodelscene.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/Miro-Moreira-Digitals-MaleModelSceneNet-061.jpg

http://famewatcher.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/italian-jean10.jpg2

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IM NOT EASY
 
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 5:58 pm

Jesus man, everything but the last sentence felt like you were apologizing for murder. The first link is forbidden, so try reuploading it to imageshack or something.
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Justin Bywater
 
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 5:52 pm

First link gives a 403 Forbidden Error..
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 9:29 pm

Yep. First link doesn't work.

But I can't say I find the second man either datable or attractive. That's a horrible looking tattoo, his pecs are almost bigger than my own boobs, he's not smiling, and he's bald. From that photo and that photo alone, and if I had to decide whether or not I would date him purely from the way he is presenting himself there, I'd say no I wouldn't. He doesn't look fun, or happy, or relaxed.

So hopefully the other dude is slightly more promising, or else my vote would be neither.

Also argh italics.

*EDIT* copy-paste first link into address bar, it works.


No for that guy, too. Also far too serious looking. Not sure which I find more attractive, neither of them fill my...um...aesthetic criteria? At least first guy has hair. The background for the second guy is also more flattering, or something. It just...I don't know, the first dude just looks awkward with that plain background. I have no idea.

They're just not my type. I was totally not helpful :biggrin:


*Edit edit* JUST noticed your tags. I vote hair on head.
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CYCO JO-NATE
 
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 7:52 pm

Full head of nice hair trumps bald guy almost everytime. Your 1st link does not work btw.
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Rusty Billiot
 
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 7:40 pm

I suppose you aren't looking for a lisbian's opinion, but they both look pretty stab-happy to me.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 12:29 am

I also suppose my opinion as a lisbian isn't exactly what you're looking for, but I can appreciate the attractiveness of men, and I'll offer my opinion on it regardless:
Since you seem to be asking about bald head vs. full head of hair, it all depends on what type of hair that person has. Short hair looks boring 90% of the time on guys, whereas long hair and baldness always looks far more attractive.

So yeah, take that for what it's worth.

EDIT: Ah, I can see the first link now. And his hair looks awful. Second picture guy is way more attractive.
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 12:04 pm

Note: This is not to transform the forums into a sixual modeling gig or a flame war and whatnot. Trust me, I am actually doing a bit of research here concerning women and their general perception of what is "attractive or not." Is there a better place to do this? Yes, a gaming forum isn't exactly the primary location to do this. Have I done this in more appropiate places? Yes, I have. I got results, I want a few more answers before I come to a conclusion. I already feel ashamed, but the person I am dealing with knows I visit the BGS forums, so she insisted I ask everyone.

Not to mention I have a friend of mine with me that is debating whether or not my "theory" is correct. She insists it's not the case, and I insist that indeed the results would be what I expect. The bet? $7. Pretty cheap, but hey, who cares.

I know the majority of people here are guys, but I have no doubt some of you are women. So I ask the women, mostly. Guys can chime in if they like, although I doubt it would be more to their liking unless, you know.

Which guy is most attractive and why? Which guy would you choose to date and why? It has to be one or the other.

http://www.malemodelscene.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/Miro-Moreira-Digitals-MaleModelSceneNet-061.jpg

http://famewatcher.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/italian-jean10.jpg2

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Forbidden fruit is always best

I'm not sure about forbidden links though
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 12:34 am

I feel like all of you are being a bit racist against the black guy in that photo. Why is this?
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 4:44 pm

I am not a woman (or a homosixual male), but I feel like punching the guy in the second photo. For whatever that's worth...
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 2:52 pm

I feel like all of you are being a bit racist against the black guy in that photo. Why is this?
Because he has a tattoo just above his crotch, a shaved head, isn't wearing a shirt, and is staring at the camera like it's the most confusing thing he's ever seen.

Or maybe just because of his skin color, I dunno.
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 12:06 pm

Mentally female and attracted to men so my opinion might as well be worth any other girl's :tongue:

Going off of solely looks, the first guy. He's got a very nice defined jawline (oh my god that jawline :wub: ), hair, and his muscles aren't too large like the second guy's are :blush:
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 6:11 pm

Neither are my type, but if I had to choose one....I find the second guy more physically attractive while I find the first guy more psychologically attractive
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 3:35 pm

Well, thanks guys. It would appear I won $7. Yay, dream big right? My point of this was because I was suppose to go out this week with her lady friends. She tried to hook me up, but I decided to stay because recently I have been balding at the top of my head. So I decided to cut it real short so it can blend in as a normal low fade and etc with a tape. Now, the male pattern baldness is increasing and I decided to cut it a little bit more.

So I chickened out, I made up an excuse and did not go. So long story short, she asked me why, I explained I would have a hard time "being myself" when I know there's something bothering me. Hard to be confident when an oddly shaped head is more apparent when the hair is short. I told her how most women like guys with hair, and how bald guys are generally considered unnatractive and lowest of the male "Screw chain". She didn't believe me, so we made a bet. I won. SInce most comments here mentioned the baldness issue, it's obvious even a six pack won't help.

Now, some may rant and say that there is someone for everyone, but hey, I'm young. I don't need to wait for a special someone when I am at least trying to make up for the lost chances haha. But I'm not whining, I'll just have to learn to grab my stuff and be a man. Thanks though, I get to buy some food with this money at least :biggrin:.

Edit: Yes, the picture for the second guy was horrible for the sake of his pose and style. There was a better picture somewhere with him smiling(Girls like smiles, right).
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 1:01 pm

Well first off, the two pictures you chose may not necessarily be the most realistic test of whether women are attracted to men with or without hair (or its relative importance). For example, the guy in the second pic is more muscular than the first, is in what appears to be a more professional photo, is of a different race, etc.

Second, I can understand your insecurity about your hair (we all have our insecurities, believe me), but I think it's probably a bigger deal to you than it is to any women you may potentially meet. There are LOTS of guys that are attractive that have bald/shaved heads or thinning hair.
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 9:06 am

I feel like all of you are being a bit racist against the black guy in that photo. Why is this?
He's black? :huh: *Gives the pick more than a glance* Mmm, I suppose that looks like it's skin colour rather than a tan or something. But he's still not black. http://www.biyokulule.com/sawiro/sawirada_waaweyn/Sudanese%20currency1.jpg guys are black ;).
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 10:37 am

Well first off, the two pictures you chose may not necessarily be the most realistic test of whether women are attracted to men with or without hair (or its relative importance). For example, the guy in the second pic is more muscular than the first, is in what appears to be a more professional photo, is of a different race, etc.

Second, I can understand your insecurity about your hair (we all have our insecurities, believe me), but I think it's probably a bigger deal to you than it is to any women you may potentially meet. There are LOTS of guys that are attractive that have bald/shaved heads or thinning hair.
Yeah, I know. Muscle plays part in it too. I guess working out can minimize the chances of rejection or whatever. But you're probably right.

He's black? :huh: *Gives the pick more than a glance* Mmm, I suppose that looks like it's skin colour rather than a tan or something. But he's still not black. http://www.biyokulule.com/sawiro/sawirada_waaweyn/Sudanese%20currency1.jpg guys are black :wink:.
He's Italian, actually.
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 6:50 pm

I know many many straight women who find bald guys attractive. (Bald young guys that is. Bald young guys are different from bald old guys.) I think your "women aren't attracted to bald guys" thing is just wrong.

(Girls like smiles, right).
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 11:59 pm

No.
SOMEONE HAS BEEN LYING TO ME!
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Jessica Raven
 
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 7:57 pm

I thought what made us guys was being balled.

Can I get a rimshot?
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I know many many straight women who find bald guys attractive. (Bald young guys that is. Bald young guys are different from bald old guys.) I think your "women aren't attracted to bald guys" thing is just wrong.


No.
Velorien, you might be wrong on the "no". I take it you don't like smiles? And I suppose spending hours on research on the subject, it would appear that it seems to be the case, as movies, television shows and books have always had the full head of hair rather than a bald one. Hair itself is a sign of vitality, youth and all of those other things. The majority of women are attracted to guys with a full head of hair.
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 7:22 pm

Yeah, I know. Muscle plays part in it too. I guess working out can minimize the chances of rejection or whatever. But you're probably right.

He's Italian, actually.

Well that depends on the girl, and what kind of attraction you're talking about. In my post, I said I was more physically attracted to the second guy but psychologically to the first guy, because the second guy (being more muscle-y) seems like he may spend a ton of time on his looks, which doesn't matter so much for a fling or casual relationship, but would be a turn-off for me if considering a serious, long-term kind of thing. So I think the muscle issue is like the hair issue...different women find different things attractive in a guy, but having hair & huge muscles doesn't necessarily make you more attractive.
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 9:29 am

Velorien, you might be wrong on the "no". I take it you don't like smiles? And I suppose spending hours on research on the subject, it would appear that it seems to be the case, as movies, television shows and books have always had the full head of hair rather than a bald one. Hair itself is a sign of vitality, youth and all of those other things. The majority of women are attracted to guys with a full head of hair.
I was mostly kidding with the "no," since chicks typically like guys that are mean. That's just how things roll. Nice, smiling guys get overlooked. But again, mostly kidding. And I'm the last to want to promote the idea of all women liking one thing.

And yeah, I'm sure a full head of hair is more popular among the ladies than a bald guy, but it's not like women hate bald dudes or anything. It's all about what look works for you. Different people look better with different hairstyles, and sometimes the best option is no hair at all.
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 8:41 pm

I have a feeling that there's a SAP meme in this thread somewhere.
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 2:20 pm

He's Italian, actually.
See? Not black, Mediterranean :P.

I know many many straight women who find bald guys attractive. (Bald young guys that is. Bald young guys are different from bald old guys.) I think your "women aren't attracted to bald guys" thing is just wrong.
Perhaps the phrasing you're looking for is "shaven-headed"?
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