I don't think I've worded that very well. I didn't mean to say fat people were always attracted to fat people...? I read quite a few articles on people being attracted to those with similar features as themselves - hair colour, body shape and facial structure. Perhaps it's not true but I definitely have seen research on it that points to there being an element of truth to it.

no, you said that's a general rule. I said that's not a general rule.

You're right - I did word my post badly.

Yeah, I've read similar articles.

It doesn't apply to me though; I know that much. I don't know about other folk.

I think you're right. Which means, as these conversations usually go, we'll just have to agree to disagree

no worries

You seem to have a head that can pull off bald pretty well.

http://www.aspencountry.com/assets/product_images/product_lib/36000-36999/36245.jpg is what I would look like.

You're either attracted to people who are similar in appearance to you, because this usually indicates biological, social, psychological etc. compatibility; or you're attracted to people who differ in appearance from you, in order to diversify the gene pool and thereby advantage any possible future spawn.




Oh and magyaronny -- bald looks good on you.

Thanks... btw what's with all the links lately... not working


thanks

Agreed.
For myself, I don't mind/can find attractive some mild ab definition, like http://abstoningbelt.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/brad-pitt-six-pack-abs.jpg
But http://www.muscle-fitness-tips.net/image-files/six-pack-abs.jpg (or even with less) would turn me off completely. I dunno, for me it looks almost gross. Makes me think of an crustacean, like a lobster tail or the trilobyte. haha. It's not only about physical preferences tho. For me it's also a 1st assumption of the personality and interest differences from myself that a guy with such a figure may imply.


And Magyaronny - I agree, bald looks great on you. Also, you're not an "old man."

Thanks Boone lover

I'll bet you have a red beret laying on your hubby's night stand right?

It's true. Apparently we're attracted to others with a similar facial structure to our own, because they are familiar and make good mates.

Was there ever any doubt?

See! You are very handsome!

No



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- and ppl wonder why woman lie when they say looks aren't important

- and to think woman think they are more "spiritual" than men

- and my friends wonder why I don't try and date more.....when drinking is doens't care if you have a full head of hair or not.

Are you drinking right now, by chance?

- and I wonder why people still generalize an entire gender, even in 2012.

I'd say the second one since the first seems forbidden, buit then again should I pick that one because it's like a forbidden fruit

Don't you find this argument logically useless?

You are either A or not A. Right.

I have no feeling of oriental women, no matter how pretty they are. I don't know, and it doesn't matter if the girl is pretty or not, the high nose of Caucassions attracts me a lot, not crooked nose tho. However when it comes to long term relationship, honestly look should not dictate.

Before I lost my hair, I had my fair share of girlfriends, flings and whatnot. I'm pretty sure I can tell the majority of the gender and/or when some woman "try and get around" a man not having hair.

As an example: I started playing poker with a group of ppl. In that group there was a chick. We flirted with eachother for a while. Another guy came into the group and she went after him. I asked her why she never went after me.....half joking/half serious toned. Her exact words were "blah blah blah....woman just think hair is sixy."

The guy used her for a place to stay and stole most of her money. She moved back to California after.

So, yeah, I would think hair on a guy in pretty important if a woman is going to stay with a guy like that over someoen who is bald and will treat them right.

It's a sob story I know....I want sympathy and all that.....anyway, it's true.

As much as I want to feel for you, I feel for that woman more, even though she was down to the point stupid. Yeah I'm weak like that

There are over 3 billion women in the world. Do you really think that your experiences with a few women is sufficient to generalize to all women?

If so, then I think the posts in this thread alone show that there is plenty of variation in how important men's hair is to women.