If you're gonna base your expectations off of real life , then yes , you can join a guild/union stating your desire to learn and excel at what the organization focuses on. For a time you'll be allowed to "prove yourself" if you don't well , they all have different ways of dealing with you.From outright firing/expelling to just sitting you "on the bench" unti you get tired of it and leave , or you're just plain too stupid to realize you're not needed/wanted. I'm professionally a plumber BTW , and that's 16 years of seeing this in action.
I've had numerous discussions with friends who mostly play consoles , and they are starting to form an opinion that they simply underestimated the average console player's expectations with this game.Some of them feel like the game almost tells them they're not capable of wantining a refined realistic RPG to play in excange for omg headchopz.That's one guys most extreme opinion , to another who simply thinks they erred on the way lower side of the age audience that would be playing this game.I personally don't run around every single game with the expectation of becoming grand poohbah of everything I do , nor do I want to.But I can visualize myself as a kid with access to a game like this really enjoying that , and I don't think that's a bad thing either. So the consensus we came up with was , how hard would it have been to put another option in under the challenge slider for "realistic" and another tick for "sandbox" or something similar to that.But now that I've shown my friends the mods that already exist for the PC version , they're kinda kicking themsleves for being exclusive xbox players as one friend said ,"I'm getting too old for just shootemups I want more now , OMG I'M TURNING INTO MY DAD!"

But some of us have an expectation of "believability" even in a fantasy world.If you appraoch certain quests/guilds that you really have no interest in really , but are able to complete and become the leader of , it just starts striking you as they were really afraid of making literally anybody feel excluded from anything.All the way down to a base concept of providing you with "cool quarters" you wouldn't otherwise have.And the college not only provides you with a really nice set of quarters , it's also the only option in that area for a "house". If you roleplay , then you set yourself up personally in a hard guideline of what you can and cannot do , and this applies to everything in the game.If you spend too much time worrying about believability in a game obviously designed to appeal to the most wide audience possible , then you're gonna waste alot time pining over these facts instead of being true to the RP nature of simply not being able to do certain things.Those are self-imposed rules that you use for yourself to introduce whatever quality you want into your game.
Personally I'd rather them deal with some of the really screwed up stories in the main quests , and some of the other things that are just glaringly beyond your control. Also some of these threads wouldn't even be happening over and over if people are paying attention.For instance , the TG quest you aren't railroaded into joining them you have an option to tell Brynjolff to get stuffed you're not breaking the law.Then you go into the ratway and deal with Esbern and continue on your merry way.Some things were done "ok" others weren't. But in the end these types of threads are made to express a certain type personal expectations in what YOUR perfect game are.You're entitled to your opinion as we all are , but personally I can appreciate the nightmare of trying to design this game with a deadline on your head , and being able to "generally" get alot right.
Playing my first character as the mostly good guy but he also had the tendency to be extremely curious/greedy , I actually did stumble on the scroll quest when I was trying to prove myself to the stormcloaks.Yes that means my set of rules to myself as this particular adventurer meant I left no stones unturned and entered a place I would otherwise have never known about unless I was being hand-fed the quest line to join the college.It was impressive that that could actually happen AT ALL considering my experience with other games.If your personal experiences and bad decisions leave you with a bad taste in your mouth , you usually end up on these forums to complain about "how it should be" which to me is fine , I actually enjoy reading other people's opinions. But the truth is this game has alot of not-so-evident ways of doing things the way you find acceptable for whatever reason , and to a rather high degree compared to other games.I by no means think this should exclude the writers from criticism for some seriously wierd stories etc.My very first impression with the game was ,"Wtf these people are sadistic or something." But then you have to consider the broader gamer base really does enjoy things I really don't , so I adjust the way I do things to make it acceptable for me.The majority's expectations will always outrule yours , and God help you if you're the guy making the final decisions on what gets released.