I myself find the cinematic animations to be quite nice as long as they aren't bugging out, but I have to admit they would look a lot better if they were more fluid in returning to the first person view (or third person view) that you were using before the attacks. Right now it literally just seems like the game plays a video clip and when it ends you're just standing there looking like you really didn't do anything. I still find it cool though, and I wish they had implemented something similar for archery, as right now all the satisfaction you get is when you one shot someone and the force of the arrow causes them to get knocked back when they die.
And as for the deal about hitting enemies and them not acting like it, I've noticed quite a bit when you hit an enemy (especially with a well connected power attack, shield bash, etc.) they frequently stagger. That's about enough realism for me right there or else this game would be far too easy. And let's not forget, when your dragonborn gets hit with a 6 foot tall orc's two handed hammer at full swing, why is it all he gets is an "OUUUUCCCH"? Would you want to play if every time your opponent successfully connected, you were stunned only to become stun locked by your opponents strikes? Look at other RPG's or even MMORPG (WoW comes to mind) where there is literally no player collision and no reaction from being hit unless it's a stun.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that if you aren't grateful for what we have now, then don't play. Just put the game down and maybe pick up the next elder scrolls in "X" number of years, and maybe it will be enough to appease your "high standards."
