Why are you transsixual? :huh:

Identified with the other gender more? It's not that complicated.

Why aren't you?

Its all about gender identification and personal image.

As for the OP, I suggest they be very stern with their friend, and also try getting them "out there" so to speak. What I think might be going on is that you are your friend's only really close friend, and being with you so long has made him think that you're "the one" for him. You might be, in his eyes, but he also apparently doesn't have much experience in the dating game and so he's just latching onto his best friend whom he came out to.

Ah, just saw the OP's age. Plenty of time for plenty of changes.

Disown him.

Yikes....ask some people have stated, what he's doing is not okay. If a guy were doing that it a girl, it'd be sixual assault, or if a lady was doing that to another lady, and so on. Hell, I got some very flamboyant homosixual fraternity brothers, and I've met some of their also pretty flamboyant friends and boyfriends, and there has yet to be an attempt to get in my pants (or me in theirs), unless they were trying to be silly.

You just do not do that. Hell, if there was a really good looking girl who was a good friend, I wouldn't try it, unless the feeling was mutual, as others have stated.

The guy needs to get his mind back on tract, because it seems to going that the fun phase of high school. If he keeps trying to hit on ya, you're going to have to try and direct him away from ya, or cutting him off, because it'll only get worse.

Fun fact, I was stalked once in college by this really crazy girl. Had to keep away from my room for so long, and lock the door and close the shutters at all times. Even when I told her to get....didn't work out too well. Bad thing was, she was stalking another brother of my house at the beginning of the year. Shouldn't have had those 4 things of jungle juice and played a lot of rounds of beer pong.

I guess he used those torture chambers for a different reason eh? :laugh:

Is this friend of yours the same age as you? :huh: Fourteen seems like a pretty young age for him to be going through what you're describing.

EDIT // Not necessarily the coming out of the closet part, but the seemingly irrepressible... err... touching urges... and the like.

EDIT #2 // Grammatical reasons. I fail.

Some people enter puberty at different ages, but the touching urges, yes, that is probably a bit young.

Turn the lights down real low and have him put a wig on........... :whistling:

You tell him: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lITBGjNEp08

I really don't have any good input, but you just gotta find a way to make it clear that the kind of relationship he has in mind won't happen.

Sign him up for Chat Roulette.. Mebbe that'll help him release some pent up energy.

Why is anyone anything? Unless I'm misunderstanding the question. :unsure:

This.

Get a chastity belt for whenever you two are alone. Use it on yourself, as you are the one being touched. Then you should probably take someone else's advice on the subject, and deal with it like that.

Just Ask Him Out

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jaivgGELQbE

Someone is touching you and you don't like it ? You say...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ays5DP1m1JQ

On a more serious note. Just tell him that if he doesn't want to push you away too then he should stop trying to touch you in improper ways.

Don't enrage at him at just any touch though, trying to touch your inferior end or even what is on the other side of it and other such places is one thing but if it′s a friendly nudge or a tackle during a game of sports then that′s a whole different matter. Have to take care not to rage at him when he doesn't deserve it. But when he does deserve it make certain he understands he's doing something wrong.

Doesn't matter that he is gay or straight, what matters is that his advances are unwelcome, even after you have repeatedly told him you are not interested.
I understand that it is diffcult for him right now, but you need to steer him to the local gay support group, who are much better equipped for emotional support.
He also needs to know that while you are fine with his being gay, unwelcome sixual advances will terminate your friendship. There are boundaries in personal space that must be respected and if he repeatedly violates them, it is disrespectful to you.


You could also cold [censored] him upside the head, a bit extreme, but dammit, NO means no.

Punch him. In the solar plexis. Hard.

That should work.

Most people know what their sixual preference is by then...or earlier. Makes me shake my head about the comments saying "it probably a phase" or "he may change" or "its hormones" as if being gay is something that you should keep your fingers crossed really isn't true. People are what they are and one would think those attitudes would be waning. It'd make being gay a hell of a lot easier.

Ok, this is in response to someone saying this kind of thing happens a lot. I am a straight man. I have never had any luck with women. However, not one time have I thought I was gay. I have also known a lot of guys who were like me. No luck with women, but still, they knew they weren't gay. I don't think it is common for guys to think they're gay, and then just decide they aren't. I know people go through phases, but I wouldn't bet on this being one of those cases. I know this has been said, but I think avoiding him would be the best option. If you can't talk him into stopping, your'e going to have to sever ties until he decides being your friend is enough. To be honest, he is being a very bad friend. If he truly wants you to be a part of his life, he should accept that it is only going to be as friends. He should accept you for who you are. That sounds kind of funny saying a gay guy needs to accept that another man is straight. It's usually the other way around.

I know this is going to sound repetitive but let him know that you're not gay and you aren't interested in that stuff. Not much else I can say that hasn't already been said.

Gotta agree with this. Unwelcome advances are unwelcome. There's no excuses for it. If he can't keep his hands to himself, and it makes you uncomfortable, it is possible that you just can't be his friend.

To sum this up, you should tell your parents, your teacher, and a police officer.

If you are his only friend and he have only "come out" to you then that could be the reason for all the touching...

Either way i think you should introduce him to some girls, it may even turn out just to be a phase" just try and get him some other friends than you just so he have something else to think about than you.... :prod: