I am not offended, and I hope you are not offended either, but it is responses like this that make me want to take my characters and go out and start indiscriminately slaying Imperials. They put my head on a block and you just want me to forgive and forget. It is not about selfishness. It is about revenge. Honestly, I sometimes I prefer the Aldmeri to the Imperials.
Again, in real life, I like to approach things with more of a Zen perspective, but in a roleplaying game, I like to roleplay. And I think if someone put my head on a block, I would not easily forgive that.
No, I'm glad you're roleplaying it, that is what makes it fun

However, it is being selfish. You're putting your revenge above the entire world. We need a combined force to take out the AD, its the only way. Skyrim may claim to have the strongest warriors in all of tamriel, but that will be no use if there are no mages to back them, or no archers. In other words, we need more than Skyrim to win. I understand you don't like the Imperials, but wait until this war is done to be selfish and have your lust for revenge.
@re We don't know what Bethesda will do just yet. So you're just making an assumption. If you think about it in terms that you're opinion does mean something, then its a lot funner than looking at the behind the scenes and what Bethesda is going to do next. Honestly, who cares at this point. Just have fun with it.