I think you'll find democracy keeps those in power on their toes and therefore much more is achieved and the people are much better served than in any other system.
Sure, a perfectly informed truly benevolent dictatorship/oligarchy would theoretically be the best possible system, but it's never going to happen.
Democracy means that parties that don't get the job done and don't serve the people get kicked out pretty damn swiftly, and that's what government is meant to do. Sure it has it's flaws, but it's the best we can get without violating human rights.
Really? That just seems really weird to me, especially if you were a part of it. What good is your tiny part if nobody else comes forward to share in the end goal?
This made me think of when my Mum would say she was proud of me - I don't think it's because she believed it was purely because of her input in raising me and therefore being proud of herself, it's just, pride. I don't get how you can't feel pride in the actions of other people. I remember watching my sister graduate and feeling really proud of her, but I didn't have anything to do with her getting qualified.
Hmmm. Maybe the problem lies more with blurred meanings in the English language and not with the majority of people's sentiments? I need to think on this I suppose.
Still, when something that you've played a massive part in - birthed - goes on to do great things, sure, pride is justified. If you've only had a minimal impact it is not justified to feel proud
of the collective effort but it is justified to feel proud of oneself, of one's convictions and efforts.