I have to admit that I've noticed and been slightly annoyed by it but that's the society we live in today...
I have zero problem with it but I do think that this over-correctness leads to molding all people together, where everyone talks and acts the same with no soul of difference. Compare Fallout New Vegas which had people from all views of the world. sixist semi-Roman loonies, I-hate-everyone war veterans, fighting women but also "traditional" women. In Skyrim everyone is a warrior, everyone loves to kill, and nobody wants to make the world a better place.
Only the people aren't that back in the woods. Skyrim has never once in it's entire history made a point about equal or different rights between man and woman because they appearantly just don't care about it. Not every world follows our history, and TES obviously never did.
And that's what makes the factions so dull and uninteresting. When everyone is the other side of the same coin it doesn't in the end matter who supports what. Again compare to New Vegas whose factions made it clear what kind of people they want, and you really had to give thought to who you want ruling Vegas.