I'm enjoying Skyrim very much. It's fun. It's not perfect, and one could dream all day of ways to improve it. But at the end of the day, it is what it is. If it isn't svcking you in, it's because it isn't what you want, and therefore you should not force it. Let it go. If you still feel as if you
should be svcked in, then perhaps you need to alter the way you approach it. Set a goal and stick to it, e.g. "I shall walk to Winterhold from Whiterun and collect every butterfly I see." Or, "kill every rabbit I see", if that's what floats your boat. While Skyrim has fallen short in a lot of areas, it is no more or less than what I expected, and having reasonable expectations goes a long way towards making a new game fun. Perhaps that is your problem? Only you really know, but these are ways of thinking that might help you figure it out.
If you're satisfied with the underwhelming quests in this game, fine. I'm happy for you. I'm not satisfied however, it seems like Bethesda just decided to be lazy thanks to their new "RadiAuant QAuests Systrem". Seriously, they don't even have a quest journal anymore, just a quest log. It's sad.
You're right about a lot of things, godhead. Bethesda has not written the greatest quests we've ever played in a game, nor have they created the smoothest, most realistic and heart-pounding combat we've ever experienced. It just seems that you're painfully disappointed because you are eager for a TES game that is absolutely perfect in every way. I don't have to tell you that's impossible. But it's really all how you look at it, because for some people, like myself, the game is great the way it is, flaws and all. Skyrim hasn't received high marks across the board for being mediocre. A lot of people find the simple joy of exploration, finding new things, seeing new landscapes, learning lore, and so on, to be fun enough to make up for what the game lacks.
But, sooner or later, the Creation Kit will be available, and modders are going to go nuts making all kinds of mods. If you stick around, you'll probably run into a bunch that give you what you want from Skyrim. Which has always been the beauty of the Elder Scrolls, since Morrowind. If it's not what you wanted, you can change it so it is.
Otherwise, there's a ton of other games in this world to enjoy.
