I put myself in the male's shoes. I put myself in the female's head.
That's a fabulous summarization of what I discovered about my own imagination thru trial-and-error in Oblivion. No matter what backstory and RP setup I had for a character, if that character was male, I'd inevitably find that character evolve into a typical mold. It took me a while to realize that with male characters, their story always became my story -- i.e., eventually the decision-tree became corrupted and taken over by, "What would *I* do?"
For me, at least, when I play a female character, it remains their story: "What would *she* do." And, because of this, it's more riveting because I never know how or where that story will change and turn.
Well, either that, or continually looking at a more attractive posterior keeps my Muse, umm, stimulated -- opinions may vary.
