No, its like Role playing and getting more out of a game after you squeezed everything dev made out of it. the devs dont factor in things to do for Inquisitor builds, or bar wenches, for example. Their non linear and 'miscellaneous' play style is incredibly rewarding and are two of my favorite RPs out of the thousands Ive made over the course of ES, specifically. Getting more out of your game, thinking outside of the box, using your imagination=fun.
I think the other person was saying that a lot of people think differently. They want to be told a story, rather than make one up. Some of Skyrim's fetch quests give you a little background, but it's not recorded anywhere. So, that quest will just get lumped in with some of the fetch quests that had little to no story. People want to see and hear characters tell them why they should care, rather than have to make up something themselves.
When I play an ES game, I rp and imagine on my character's behalf. It's fun to think about my character's reactions to the world and people around him. I don't like to have to make up the world and people around him (their stories anyway) in addition to making up his reactions to them. Feels fake. It's more fun watching a play that you didn't write yourself.