point is, we have little first hand accounts of Elisif and management of Solitude. The majority of what we have is hearsay and opinions from npcs.
We see a city that is run well and we see that she is capable of changing her mind if she makes a bad decision. Those a pretty good qualities. Her inexperience is a bad quality, but it seems fairly well compensated for unless one thinks she should be demanding her inexperience guide decisions.
Honestly, we see about as much of her leadership as we do anyone else's.
