I hate anime with a bloody passion that burns with the intensity of a thousand fiery horses.
But, I used to love a few animes when I was a little kid. I loved Dragonball (Z, GT, etc.), Tenchi Muyo, and Sailor Moon. But that's the thing, I liked it as a little kid. I stopped when I turned 11 or 12 and haven't looked back. Despite the advlt undertones in most animes, it's too childish for me.
Anime and manga come in all genres. After having watched um... possibly hundreds over the years, most of the series I've seen span the same range of genre as 'live-action' TV. Good cop dramas, mysteries, romantic comedies. The only difference is that these are animated. Although I would venture to say that actually on average they have more mature and interesting plotlines than most of the garbage live-action shows on TV.
The animation style is pretty much the same for all of them (drawing style as well as character movement and speech),
Not by a long shot.. I'd explain why, but I'm sure some anime art geek will rebut that with lots of examples soon.
themes are repeated over and over again,
Quite often true. Just like live-action American TV plotlines?
and the fact that there are advlt undertones in a lot of animes completely disgusts me when you see that most 'women' and 'men' are portrayed as extremely youthful and even adolescent or younger.
Just like live-action American TV plotlines?
Also, the way it consumes a lot of people (yes, I realize a lot of people have self-control and others get obsessed over other things) also disgusts me.
Meh, it's more funny than anything else. I have difficulty feeling disgust for people who enjoy a hobby that hurts no-one. Like the other usual suspects (eg recreational drug users, porm fans, bdsners), these kind of things get a lot of undue disgust for no particular reason. A lot are 'disgusted' for no reason other than to feel superior sometimes, I feel.
The obsession in some animes with large-briasted anime girls in school uniforms is also a completely disgusting theme.
Young women in their late teens are seen as attractive in both contexts. You see just as much obsession over young, attractive, large-briasted women in 'Western' TV. The only difference? Japanese schools have uniforms, and American schools do not. Same girls, same big briasts, different school rules. If American schools all had uniforms, the classic 'icon' of a young attractive woman would be wearing one too.