I was hoping to not post until I got home from work, but at the rate this thread was going it may reach post count before that happens.
last year i got into it for about three months, not interested anymore. It was a form of entertainment that didn't really do anything to make me popular with girls. Plus it was the most expensive form of entertainment ive ever persued apart from games. $50 for one season of a series.
Heh, I don't even want to admit to how much I have spent on anime/anime-related merchandise the last year (it is a bit depressing

), but we have it lucky: In Japan $50-60 for a two-episode DVD, Blu-ray can run $80. So I don't really consider it expensive, but glad I can get it so cheap (and I will usually only buy when there is a sale of some kind).
Anyways I like anime. YES, many anime share common attributes/cliches, especially those that make it states side, which are usually shounen. However the same can be said of mostly any media. Don't like it if you don't want to, I don't give a damn, but to say it is bad because it has cliches: newsflash: everything has cliches.
I personally prefer to watch lots of slice-of-life anime which avoid many of these action-oriented cliches. Go ahead and hate it, just avoid overgeneralizations (which I don't think is asking too much). Anime is a medium and as such quite diverse. It may not be to your tastes, but that is fine and dandy, there is plenty of other entertainment out there for you to enjoy and in the mean time I will kick back and watch some anime. That way we all can be happy ^_^.
I never said all the people that watch it were pedophilic pervs. I just think anime has a ridiculous emphasis on almost-nudity-but-not-quite situations.
I would say sixual focus is no more or less than American movies. There are titles that focus greatly on it, but the same can be said for some movies; most titles don't do much with it.