Hi Backstaber. How's your day so far?
I think it's easy to be grateful about Skyrim, as It has lots of things going for it. Why would that prevent anyone from paying due notice of this or that flaw and make some suggestions? It seems to me the devs themselves do not adopt this mentality, as can be seen from the Game Jam. It seems to me they didn't spend that week patting each other on the back, but tried to make the game better, in a way that at times appears to be a direct reaction to feedback and suggestions provided here on the forum. So the way I see it Devs would like two things from us: $60 from each, which they already got, and some ideas on how to make the game better, which is what those fellow forumers will be providing.
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Now, I understand what your saying how devs like feedback. However, there is a fine line between feedback and out right ingratitude by smashing the game entierly because of some feature that didn't make it into the game. When this game first came out the only thing people could do is act like a sniffing raging basset hound seeking out anything that wasn't in the previous EOS serise. Otherwords, it was a cool thing to hate on this game, to the point that it became a trend. I remeber going to gamestop at midnight release to get the game. I put it in and just wondering around the world made me giggle like a little school girl. That was just my first immpression. Now that I am 400 hours in the and still need to complete the MQ and mages QL, I know for a fact the game has depth. It just requires some self-discipline not to exploit teh enconomy, FT, or OP your character along with some reasonable saving habits. Then again, i come back to the forums and people are still making topics like "i used to like skyrim but i couldn't get into it, i didn't even finish the MQ, i'm playing Gears 3 & Dark Souls" kinda garbage.
On the one hand it seems like beth went out of its way to cater to these ingrats only to have them be fair weather fans, but hey they made the sale, they are a biz that needs to profit. However, they didn't forget about me either. Most people that are vets to the series are turned off by the former and it becomes really hard to see the latter. All in all I think the devs need to hear contructive critizem from the vets of the serise. SO hopefully that will translate into better DLC much like SI was on EOS!V. Nevertheless, in the broader context Skyrim is in a class of its own and cant be touched. The only things that come close are the flashy "movie like" RPGs from Bioware. However, after i play those games i cant sit there and replay it like i can an EOS game cause i skip through all the cut seceans and i'm left with a very uninsiring world. Much like DA:O was. Yeah its cool to sit in a menu to think about how you want to plan you character then get pissed of mid game cause you F'd it up so now you got to go back and start a new character. In skyrim, if you want to add a magica skill mid game and the whole time you didn't invest anything into magic, its still possiable.
People that blast the game want a complex character skill tree and have to sit in a menu for hours thinking on how to build a monster so they can go online and be the first to reveal the next best character build everyone should try. Dont get me wrong, i like that too, but not in EOS. It wouldn't make sense, anymore. Maybe in Morrowind days but not in this time. Sure, people can call Skyrim merely an action/adventure game but the idea that its no longer a roleplaying game because how you advance your character is not a dry text book type of experience is invalid. I like all types of RPGs and i like how beth tried something new with an RPG experience. However, the reaction its got was much like that when the minds back in the day was told the earth is not flat but round. It went agaisnt all logic at the time. I think what beth did in skyrim character advancement is going to change RPGing forever. However, i think its just a start and a movement in the right direction. I hope it will only get better from here on out.
Also, those people that also think Roleplaying is supposed to be a citmatic experience like watching a movie, i.e., mass effect, and then getting to have to make little choices that influence the direction of the story, is the pinicale of roleplaying are so fundementally flawed its rediculous. Whats more perplexing is those fans come from a mass effect game and leveling charges against Skyrim for it not having those same features. I've played the hell out of Mass Effect, its fun, i like the story, but thats ALL there is to it really. The enviroments are SO lame. Its eye candy with a little bit of shock and awe. Skyrim is like the motto in the air force "no one can even come close" or like the guy who was in a black hawk in blackhawk down "they cant touch this." Skyrim has a whole trumps anything in the RPG market, so those that fans from Bioware or where ever needs to keep their trash in their own back yard and not "suggest" Skyrim should be like some other compaines game. Period.