I have to ask what exactly you're talking about? When do people give the mods "a hard time"? I've never seen that. Not even once.
Things can be rather, uhhh, unpleasant in the Skyrim forum at the moment, and it only gonna get worse until the game is released in a month from now. And then it gonna get even worse for several more months while people are playing the game!

I do remember when I first joined it was a lot different community forum, and we had quite a few characters we don't have now. Even though the slight controversies over them I do admit it seemed like it was highschool all over again, in a good way. Nowadays it seems like a preschool , not to be demeaning at all. It just feels bland here, Hellokitty where are you now? I am not sure if the moderation got harsher or if the members got more inpatient or dislikes on what we couldn't talked about. I can't remember the last time we had a serious fight or anything. Sure the rivalries and some people who may have been thought of annoying didn't really hurt the community much at all but it gave this place some sort of "spice" to it. It seems like years since I have posted a positive response on this forum. Am I getting old and grumpy from this forum? Maybe I should stop thinking about the past....it is just so boring now.
There are a lot of people who feel like that.
- Joins the forum.
- Everything is new and exciting and cool!
- The other members are cool too!
- Golden forum age! So awesome, hooray for awesome internet friends!
- Newcomers arrive, who are they to ruin our golden age atmosphere! And other changes, how dare they!
- This is getting really annoying!
- Spin-off forum created.
- Spends time on the spin-off forum remembering the good old days and talking about how polluted that place has become and sometimes link to a thread to that place to prove the point and laught at their ignorance. Things sure are better here on this spin-off place!
- Returns to the forum now and then to make snide remarks about how svcky things are and not being a productive member at all but instead trying to make the forum into some kind of self-fulfilling prophecy.
This list of events have happened so many times over the ~9 years I've been a moderator here, and I've seen so many spin-off forums being created and seen this pattern in so many members. Heck,
it happened to me too when I left this place in early 2002 as lots of newcomers arrived because of Morrowind was closer to release and then returned some half year later. But there is always an influx of new members who will always experience a new personal golden age. And sometimes it's easy to forget that

Although I guess the whole thing isn't very surprising. When you outgrown someone in a relationship, do you still hold that person in high regard or consider the person to be a [censored]? A surprisingly large amount of people really do seem to hate their exes despite all the fond experiences they have shared.
Anyway, I think if politics and religion were confined to their own threads or something it could make for a really interesting discussion, without it destroying every other thread. Failing that, just being able to mention politics or religion without having your post edited or deleted would be nice.
That rule came to be during the US elections 2004. Before the rule, the US elections 2004 was a pure hell. Very few here in CD at the time seemed to be able to repect the viewpoints of others at all.