Help, dating a physco!

Post » Sat Jun 23, 2012 4:30 am

Two things have just occurred to me:

1) By posting here you have created a timestamped record. As long as you don't come back and edit all your posts (thus changing the 'last edited' string), you have something which will support your side of the story if she tries to screw you figuratively.

2) Keeping a journal is often recommended in situation like this. Whenever she pulls a fire alarm, threatens you, or otherwise coerces you, write an entry.

Oh crap, that's right! This thread could be presented as evidence in a court room!

*combs hair and tucks shirt in* Make your posts presentable, gentlemen!
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Post » Fri Jun 22, 2012 7:19 pm

Anyone who should find themselves in a courtroom for any period of time is a right wally.
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Post » Fri Jun 22, 2012 11:51 pm

Hey guys, just giving you a quick update. I arrived to work a couple of hours ago and i was late, mainly because I was dreading it and as a result missed my bus, I was only late by half hour. She called me over for a word and wanted me to explain to her why I was late, I said straight up it was because of this, I said I don’t feel comfortable with this, I don’t appreciate that I am being forced to do these things just to keep my life secure. She said she “doesn’t give a flying [censored]” about what I feel and that it was my own fault for coming onto her in the first place. She has said that because I was late I will need to make up the time and leave half hour later. Thats all thats happened so far, she been in meetings for the rest of the day thank god! Only now whenever shes in a meeting I am on the edge thinking will she tell them I did it?!

I have read alot of your suggestions and I liked the ideas of recording our ‘sessions’ and also using this thread as evidence, though right now I am thinking about just powering through and hope she gives in eventually. The reason I have decided this is as good as your suggestions are and your support is fantastic, this is still my life on the cards here and I don’t wanna jump into anything before seeing if it could die down its self. I will leave it a month, and if things haven’t changed I will pursue legal action and see where i end up.

I will keep this thread updated (along with continued threads that get created) just so you guys know the score, because reading your suggestions are fantastic and also funny which helps lighten my mood!

Thats all guys, if anything happens later on I will let you know.
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Post » Sat Jun 23, 2012 3:54 am

Hey guys, just giving you a quick update. I arrived to work a couple of hours ago and i was late, mainly because I was dreading it and as a result missed my bus, I was only late by half hour. She called me over for a word and wanted me to explain to her why I was late, I said straight up it was because of this, I said I don’t feel comfortable with this, I don’t appreciate that I am being forced to do these things just to keep my life secure. She said she “doesn’t give a flying [censored]” about what I feel and that it was my own fault for coming onto her in the first place. She has said that because I was late I will need to make up the time and leave half hour later. Thats all thats happened so far, she been in meetings for the rest of the day thank god! Only now whenever shes in a meeting I am on the edge thinking will she tell them I did it?!
That's a good sign, keep your head down and don't show any emotion when you talk to her.

I've been in this sort of situation before (minus some of the crazy), and if she's anything like this other person she will get a bit of a power trip and make life difficult for a while and then settle for being rude when you do bump into her.

But then again, she set of a god damm fire alarm.
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Post » Fri Jun 22, 2012 8:49 pm

EDIT: Oops, late to the party. Well, if she gets you fired, you have a laundry list of things you can turn right back at her.
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Post » Fri Jun 22, 2012 11:54 pm

Make your decision after the blindfold.
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Post » Sat Jun 23, 2012 4:35 am

Faraith. Seriously man. Record her threatening you, go to the person above, present this thread. Don't do any of this beating around the bush crap that you are doing, because it is only going to extend your issue.

Thing you have to learn is that someone can only control you if you let them.... which you are clearly doing right now. She wants war? GIVE HER WAR I SAY! Now, I want your next post to be about how you told her to back down, and if she didn't than do give us the details of how you went to upper-management and informed them of the situation will you? No more of this, "Well I went to her and she said no so ok," crap. Just get it done.

Do it because Vidicus told you to do. It's not like I have ever posted anything stupid beyond belief on this forum when it was late at night or to early in the morning. Nope. Never happened at all.
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Post » Fri Jun 22, 2012 9:19 pm

....Thing you have to learn is that someone can only control you if you let them.... which you are clearly doing right now. She wants war? GIVE HER WAR I SAY! Now, I want your next post to be about how you told her to back down....
Thing is...Isn't this contradictory :huh:
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Post » Sat Jun 23, 2012 5:19 am

Thing is...Isn't this contradictory :huh:

It might be actually. Ummmm...

REGARDLESS! The point is that our boy needs to be like, "Hey dog, I don't want to be your dog, so stop keeping me on a leash like a dog, ok dog?" But he has to do it with style... very... aggressive style. Not to aggressive though, he wants to look good in this.

Now here is Lady-Mara to sing a song that fits the situation. Take it away.
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Post » Fri Jun 22, 2012 7:39 pm

"Hey Dawg, I don't want to be your doug, so stop keeping me on a leash like a doug, ok Dawg?"
Now it's stylish :cool:
Go on my son! Be free! She may chain you to the wall, but she will never take your FREEDOM!!!
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Post » Sat Jun 23, 2012 9:04 am

Now it's stylish :cool:
Go on my son! Be free! She may chain you to the wall, but she will never take your FREEDOM!!!

Oh.
My.
God.

Papafern you just gave me the perfect idea to give this guy. He could pay us all to come down there dressed as various characters from the Bethesda Franchises and escort him through his work place the entire day. Would probably be cheaper than court, and much more entertaining as well.
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Post » Fri Jun 22, 2012 10:10 pm



Oh.
My.
God.

Papafern you just gave me the perfect idea to give this guy. He could pay us all to come down there dressed as various characters from the Bethesda Franchises and escort him through his work place the entire day. Would probably be cheaper than court, and much more entertaining as well.

Shotgun. I'm Sheogorath.
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Post » Fri Jun 22, 2012 10:48 pm

Shotgun. I'm Sheogorath.
I'll go as Uncle Crassius. :hubbahubba:
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