Even in the gaming community we have it rough. Everyone knows about the heckling we get online. Many men will make it clear they assume women gamers are fat/ugly/socially awkward - just because they play video games. Even worse, imo, is that women get labeled as an 'attention [censored]' simply for revealing, or refusing to hide, their gender. One of the reasons I am an 'outted' female gamer on forums like these is to try and break down these stereotypes. I hope in the future it gets easier to be both female and a gamer, because I am proud to be both and don't feel like hiding either.
....sorry got a little OT and rant-y. Whoops

I agree with you....Outside of this forum, I tend not to tell people about my obsession with TES or the even the fact that I'm a gamer. Although it probably has more to do with the fact that I'm a PhD student right now, more than the fact that I'm female...I guess because I'm afraid all of the non-gamers will associate being a gamer with being a slacker or something.