Now hold on here, I'm against elitism as much as the next (I have every gaming system released since SNES), but many of these points are gross mis-interpretations, unsubstantiated claims, and just inaccurate.
Performance, graphics and everything else are all largely the same.
PCs will
always have much better visuals. We can get detailed textures, injectors, and we can play in resolutions higher than 720p and with FPS above 30 frames, not to mention the superb ENB thanks to Borov. There is no contest for visuals when compared to a console, at all. Of course, visuals are only part of a game, but to say that they are even remotely similar is just a far stretch.
Mods are a separate thing entirely. They dont really belong in any debate on this because they come with their own disadvantages too. Mods arent a thing that says "this is better because of mods", it's much more a case of "if I like mods, then this is better because it has mods". A lot of people dont like and/or dont have mods, because the game is already rich and immersive enough, without adding someone else's (not Bethesda's) take on the game.
This is also largely unsubstantiated opinion more than anything. I have a lot of friends recently who just started gaming on PC, and originally thought similarly. Until they actually tried mods. Their opinions changed instantly.
You simply cannot group every mod ever into the "doesn't fit Bethesda's vision" category, there are tonnes of mods that are lore firendly, enhance major gameplay flaws, fix present issues and common complaints. If you really think that all mods are vanilla-conflicting, you simply have not searched hard enough through the thousands of available mods.
In my mind, and this may be a bad anology, but its like a child going into a toy store and saying "I don't want anything here because I don't like toys."
What? There are many kinds of toys, kid. You need to go look around before you lump everything into one pile of "I don't like this."
But there in lies the problem, 90% of the time it is meant to be arrogant and condescending.
Major exaggeration there. 90%? Hardly so. You may feel like that, but I'd venture the bet you are exaggerating. The real problem is its just a touchy subject, no one
wants to think the hard earned cash spent on their console is money wasted, and it is certainly easy to feel that way when people come into boards saying lines like "you can fix this with console commands."
The problem is, that you shouldn't feel that way at all. There is nothing wrong with owning a console and enjoying it. It just so happens that one platform has more to offer, but who cares? Its your money, and as long as you don't pay head to the few trolls that like to start flame wars you have no one to blame but yourself for getting upset over these non-existent "console-wars."
The current opinions trend the way the industry is going. In recent years, the PC has taken a back seat to games on consoles etc, and as such, those who choose to solely game on PCs have been hurt or left feeling second best. That then makes some of them want to hit back at "the console" (what they perceive to be the reason for their platform's troubles), and console gamers who occasionally pop up on these PC heavy forums are an easy target.
This couldn't be further than the truth. In recent years the PC has exploded with multitudes of Indie development, and with STeam popularizing amazing sales, multiple AAA developers are beggining to see the potential in the PC market. Need I remind you Diablo III sold 6 million copies recently? a PC exclusive, no less (ignoring the current fact of its DRM issues). And there is also no evidence to show that the PC version is the least popular of the 3 platforms for Skyrim. Currently, to the contrary, PC seems to be the lead for this particular title. Skyrim is one of the highest selling steam titles of all time, and most ranking sites don't even measure Digital transactions, and even in those cases PC sales are only a slim margin behind consoles. So in all likelihood, PC gaming is proving to be more successful as of late. So your theory is very unsubstantiated and has little basis in fact.
Moral of the story: Lets not skew facts on the debate of PCvConsoles, and lets stop giving credence to trolls. If you see someone make a stupid elitist comment, ignore it and move one. If you reply, you are partially to blame for perpetuating a non-existent console war

Just enjoy playing on consoles and ignore hate. There is nothing wrong singing into XBOX live and chatting with pals while playing Skyrim, don't let anyone fool you otherwise.