» Tue May 15, 2012 12:39 am
So, wow, my off-handed comment that i ended up deleting for fear of a creating a flamewar ended up NOT creating a flamewar. So...I guess I'll expand a bit. I would never date a chick with tattoos. I'm married, and I would leave my wife, if she got a tattoo. I have made that absolutely clear to her, and as such you could, more or less, say that I "forbade" her from getting one. It may seem rather tyrannical to outsiders, but it works perfectly fine for the both of us, we are both completely happy with each other and our relationship. Yes, she might be a tad bit happier if I let her get a tattoo, but it would make me VERY unhappy, so their is over-all a major loss of happiness in the relationship, so she doesn't bother.
I admit, I have certain prejudices against women with tattoos, likely due to my upbringing, and it's not something I can particularly shake off, it's pretty ingrained in there. Small-town living and all of that. Yes, it's likely shallow of me, but I can accept that about myself. On the plus side, while I'm "Ok" with it on guys, I do tend to pick on my best friend for the multitude of tats that he has, and I would never EVER EVER get one on myself, so while I guess I'm still a bit of a hypocrite, I'm not quite as bad as some people might think.