Another reason why i hate people calling Torygg a baby or "weak", he knew he was going to die if he accepted Ulfrics challenge, he knew if he just refused the challenge he would have lived, but he didin't step down, you know how strong you have to be to go threw with something like this?
Yes, but from what I've seen the only people who keep complaining about the fact that Torygg was "just a boy" or "so young" or whatever are the ones who are mad that Ulfric killed him and they are using his youth and inexperience as a way to make Ulfric look bad for challenging him.
Naturally if they are going to keep pointing out how young and weak and inexperienced he was compared to Ulfric, the people on the other side are going to point out that if he was so young and weak and inexperienced then maybe he wasn't the best person for the job under the circumstances.
In other words, by emphasizing his relative youth/weakness/inexperience, they are only helping to prove the point that Ulfric was trying to make in the first place. It's really not fair to say "oh poor baby he was just a boy" when complaining about his death, but then pretend that he was something else entirely when defending his leadership.