And yet, you still bought the game. Why else would you be posting here if you didn't own a copy?
Purchasing decisions are often a dilemma.
We may judge, on balance, that buying Skyrim is a good decision, despite the price and negative aspects, but that doesn't mean that we endorse the bad features.
Last year, I decided to buy Portal 2, because it clearly was a great game. Since I wanted to keep Steam off my desktop, I bought a CD from (sigh) EA via (hurrah) Amazon. I'd been conned, because it won't install without Steam. So it sat on my shelf, despite the waste of money. That's how strongly I feel about it.
However, ever since Bioware lost interest in medieval modding, I've been looking for an alternative. The practical choices seemed to be [a] give up modding entirely [b] Skyrim [c] wait for Neverwinter (an uncertain and even more authoritarian alternative).
Since the hobby is important to me, I had to accept, with the utmost reluctance, installing Steam in order to use Skyrim.
That doesn't mean that I endorse Steam in any shape or form.
It just means that I've elected to "stay and fight" rather than walk away from gaming.