So I've read this topic and I do agree to a point. There are a lot of gamers out there that are all about min/maxing, and about being better than everyone else. MMO's do in a way create an environment that brings out this competitive behavior. Now I also want to state, as there have been many posts I have read bashing mmo's, especially wow, that I have played wow since release, and could care less about min/maxing. I also was fortunate enough to find a really great guild that could care less about this style of play. We were just there to have fun, enjoy the game and maybe even do a bit of rp. I guess these types of players in mmo's are few and far between but I just want to say we are out there.
Now in regards to Skyrim. I absolutely love it, bugs and flaws and all, because of the fact it's single player(and an Elder Scrolls Game), and its an entirely different beast to an MMO. I like both styles and you can enjoy both styles of play. People will learn this eventually and if not, then let them complain, because it really doesn't matter. Everyone has their own idea of what is fun. In community based game you just need to find like minded people. In a single player game, just enjoy the game and not worry about what other people are doing.
Anyways, I'm going to shush it now, because I'm tired and not entirely sure if any of that made any sense. :
