For me its a problem, whenever i try to play a female character i just end up feeling like an idiot, so i was wondering, am i the only one who feels like this?
No problem what so ever. This thread pops up on an average of one every two weeks it seems, as stated earlier.
I am a straight male and roll female characters about 90% of the time, if not more. I look at more from a 3rd party, I guess. Like playing Tomb Raider or something. When I create male chars, I run them like they are an extension of myself. Especially the Sniper characters I create in the FO series.
I put myself in the shoes of the male chars. I put myself in the head of the female chars.
I LOVE women.

I like being around women more than males. (lots of women, actually) I like to watch movies that star female actresses, more than male actors. I like to listen to female singing artists WAY more than male singers. I like to create and play with female chars more in RPG's than males...and yes, they are all lisbian.