She comes across as driven, desperate, lost, and almost out of hope. She's seen all of her friends die, isn't sure why she's alive or what she's supposed to be doing with her life, and seems to be grasping at the crazy notion a Dragonborn just showed up and might give her some kind of purpose. That's how she comes across to me, anyhow. I grant she's not polite and you could consider her insolent, but as I recall the MQ, after you show you are a Dragonborn she bends over backwards helping you do things. She gets you into the Thalmor Embassy, is impressed with her work, starts to feel actually happy about something when she finds out another Blade is alive, etc.
The old man seems like the doddering profesor type who is in love with history. Pretty unlikely to be issuing orders to a near mythical figure that has tons of prophecy about him.
Then you get them their temple and a base of operations. Up until that point they've been liking you more and more, and seem to have had a growing respect for for you and been serious about the Blades serving the Dragonborn. Suddenly, Delphine starts talking about how anyone that joins the Blades won't be loyal to you first and later they demand you kill a friend that even all the Dragonborn Emperors have protected. I have to say this really does seem like a somewhat bizarre shift, because the direction things were going in your relationship with them takes a very abrupt turn -- it makes it feel like they were somehow both playing you, yet they had no time to formulate a position together. It is weird.
I really get the impression that all this was done out of some sick sense of humor. As though the person/people who decided on this got a perverse laugh out of the idea of you being a hero and almost everyone treating you like dirt. There's a lot in the game that feels like it was done for the sake of twisted humor, honestly.
Same here, and honestly, after playing something like 150 hours of Skyrim, I feel like I've been insulted in the game more than I've been insulted in my entire life.



