Amen redneck, I pound my drum about this last year about going to these forums, for some reason folks think because you go to these forums you're a different breed and aren't worth the attention or some marginalizing aspect that's just that, Marginalizing. it serves no purpose and is only at attempt to invalidate the opinions of others -For no reason- everyone here for the most part payed for their game, everyone here is a fan and everyone here have opinions of their own. the only difference between them and those that don't come here is attendance...that's it. so yes I do find it laughable to think people here have a sense of entitlement.....Like those who don't frequent here Don't? Did they not pay for the product? this isn't a charity stop trying to stonewall people because you're happy and they aren't.
The thing is, why the sense of entitlement?
When you pay for a product, particularly one that is entertainment, you are taking the risk that you may not be entirely satisfied.
Yes, someone who isn't satisfied certainly has the right to express their opinion, but there is no reason for a sense of entitlement. And that's ultimately my problem on this forum - not that there are people who are unhappy with Skyrim, but their utter sense of entitlement about it. Someone in another thread stated "There sure are a lot of victims that play this game", and that's the truth. People who are unhappy with this game act as though they have been victimized, as though Bethesda has committed an injustice against them.
The problem comes from the constant condescending attitude and insulting language, that the game was "dumbed down", "hand holding",marketed towards "casuals", "console gamers", or "COD kids".
Negative criticism is okay, because hey,
NO product is above criticism. It's not the criticism that I have a problem with. To be completely honest, I don't totally disagree with a
lot of the complaints around here - I think the loss of Spellmaking svcks, I think the loss of many spell effects svcks, I would never be against
more dialogue options and choices on how to complete a quest, the idea for toggles for kill cams is not a bad idea, followers could certainly be improved, guild questlines could be longer, I
wouldn't complain if the series lost quest and map POI markers, so on and so forth. However, I understand why many of these changes were made, and in some ways, I agree with why these changes were made. I may think that it's unfortunate to have to lose those options, but I understand why. And I don't let these changes ruin the game for me, because hey, I believe there was a lot of great stuff added as well.
Most of the time, it's not the complaint I have an issue with, rather than the attitude behind the complaining. The attitude that because these things weren't done in the game (for whatever reasons), that the game is "dumb", that it's meant for "COD kids" (as if there is something inherently wrong with Call of Duty or people who play it), blatant
lying about the actual reality of the game, constant generalizations that because there are a few people unhappy that means it's a global truth that surrounds the game, and you name any of the other insults that get thrown out around here.
Talking on a forum is not the same as talking in person.
ALL we have here is the language. We can't hear tone, we can't read facial expressions, all we can go off of is the language. So when people make claims and use language that they are global truths, one cannot assume that they
mean "in my opinion" when we have nothing to draw that conclusion off of. When people make claims that the game is "dumbed down", one cannot assume that they are doing so in jest (I also call World of WarCraft "dumb", when I'm joking around to my friend who plays it constantly. However, I would never have an honest opinion that World of WarCraft is somehow "beneath" me, and that people who play it are a lower class of gamer than I am.), instead it comes off very insulting towards those of us that
do like the game, it comes off as though we only like it because
we're dumb, and we need
dumb games to be entertained.
And I've said it before, and I'll say it again. If you dislike a product so much ("you" general, not "you" specific) I don't understand the need to
be on its forums to talk about it. People say it's because they want to make their voices heard for the future of the series, but even that is bogus in my eyes. Star Wars Galaxies was, at one time, my favorite MMORPG of all time (and Star Wars Galaxies before the CU and NGE still
is my favorite MMORPG of all time) and one of my favorite games of all time. When the changes were made, and the game became something that I didn't enjoy anymore, I left the game, and I left the forums... because the product was no longer something that I wanted it to be, there was no reason for me to linger on the forums and spread my negativity. And I don't see why people who don't like what Elder Scrolls has become would stick around and spread their negativity through here. You don't like the direction of Elder Scrolls, that svcks, and you are entitled to your opinion, but when it's obvious that you are no longer the audience, then really, your opinion
doesn't matter. I was no longer the audience that Sony was shooting for with Star Wars Galaxies, so my opinion no longer mattered.
I don't say that to silence negative opinions or negative posts. They absolutely have a place, and people absolutely should post them. But they should do so without the negativity and condescending attitude that accompanies it.