If people are so intent on following Talos, they should support the Empire and the Blades. He started them both.

Paarthunax is cool, but he's hardly Puff the Magic Dragon. "Oh he's so nice and meditates on stuff". lol
See this is where I think things go awry, and I lump this right along with the Dunmer and Orcs of Skyrim somehow owing people who
weren't even alive when they and/or their ancestors were given sanctuary in Skyrim. How does someone like Ulfric deserve any credit
at all for deeds he didn't even do, and why should people that weren't even alive when it happened owe any debt for it either?
This goes along with this too. Talos does not have a direct influence on the Empire and certainly not the Blades. At the very best what you describe is the type of person that is contemptible in the real world: the self-absorbed theocrat that has the audacity to think that THEY dare speak for the being they worship.
Here's the reality of this for me:
You have these two survivors that supposedly are pledged to the Dragonborn. Even the "veteran" was not around anywhere close to the time period of even Oblivion, the most recent game. They are owed nothing in my opinion. They were around for a war that was lost, and then turn around and come back with a kooky plot of genocide. Revenge is something that is always evil, no matter the reason in my opinion. It has been thousands of years since Paarthurnax did anything evil. The lives of Delphine and Esbern combined are drops in a bucket compared to his experience and wisdom. They have the audacity to be judge, jury, and executioner (oh wait no they try to send you for that last part with no input from you whatsover despite the fact they supposedly serve you). Not only that, but they have the audacity that they dare act as if they are official leaders of this new so-called "Blades?" If I were helping rebuild
their Blades the organization of dangerous, reckless, morally blind assassins that would result wouldn't deserve to bear the name. They abandoned their right to wear that title the moment they decided to slaughter the innocent and redeemed, as far as my character is concerned. While it's true redemption is objective, beings that have lived a combined total of less than three hundred years have no right to judge the redemption of a being who has lived for thousands of years in peace, I would think.
In many ways the new Blades are
just like the Thalmor. Two sides of the same coin, one side pro-Talos and the other against. Much like theocratic battles in the real world where people try to justify atrocities by claiming to act or speak for a divine being, claiming that their enemies are barbarians but they are not due to doing God's will, the Thalmor and the new Blades would be two sides of the very same coin. Enemies that are more alike than different, both contemptible.