This.
I play the game to tell a story, to live the life of my character. The best moments in the game, for me, are all character driven - how my character reacts to certain events, befriends certain NPCs, makes certain decisions and often changes dramatically over the course of their lives.
To me, Skyrim and TES in general aren't about combat, fighting and killing things. They're about personal experiences, about character development and the character.
If you want a game specifically built for fighting, play CoD or a similar first person shooter, in my opinion. Skyrim isn't going to meet the standards of a FPS, simply because it's not specialized towards combat like a FPS is.
I agree with this... but it implies that you can't play the game for combat alone and enjoy it and I have to disagree. For a game that doesn't have guns, I think the combat is very well done. It's as repetitive as shooting the same guns at the same enemies thousands of times (looking at you, CoD), but like the FPS shooters, I still find it fun and engaging. I don't think I'm stupid, either.