Bethesda have put their own unique style on the game and if you don't like it then don't play it.
Justifying bad gameplay decisions is always smart.
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are you saying skyrim is hard? you are funny
i always play on expert and never exploit and skyrim is easy as can be (super mario bros. was harder)
Dying fast=/=hard. Chiheling enemies hp to zero = takes a long time = boring = annoying
This.
I play the game to tell a story, to live the life of my character. The best moments in the game, for me, are all character driven - how my character reacts to certain events, befriends certain NPCs, makes certain decisions and often changes dramatically over the course of their lives.
To me, Skyrim and TES in general aren't about combat, fighting and killing things. They're about personal experiences, about character development and the character.
If you want a game specifically built for fighting, play CoD or a similar first person shooter, in my opinion. Skyrim isn't going to meet the standards of a FPS, simply because it's not specialized towards combat like a FPS is.
Interesting view on TES games because skyrims character development is focuced on combat (locking picking and speech are the only non combat skills). Quests are mainly fetch quests where you propably end up killing people. Quest rewards are either money to buy stuff (to kill people), weapons (to kill people), or allies (to kill people). You are the dragonborn, dude who is good at killing dragons.
TES games are 95% killing and 5% of other stuff. How is Dark Messiah an fps? It is an action rpg (Dark Messiah was the game that originally got me into TES/rpgs in general) but its' combat doesn't svck.