I feel pitty for the people on this thread that say Skyrim is not an RPG. Maybe you never actually really new what the term meant or means now. It is a very wide and broad term to define a game where you play a character of your choosing throughout a narrative or story. Where you perform the actions and decide how your character develops. Skyrim meets all of the criteria and then some.
The answer is yes Skyrim is indeed an RPG. The question isnt if its and RPG but rathe rif it is a good one. According to many many players and the large majority of gmaing magazines the answer is also YES. It has won many Game of the Year awards already.
You will have to excuse many of the posters on these boards as they are quite offended and hurt that some of their favorite parts of previous TES titles have been removed such as spell crafting and the practice of adding or subtracting attribute points from a character screen. Simply put some people are dismissing this game as an RPG because one or two elements were removed in favor of adding some others.
If your son likes the following this game would be a good choice:
-Picking a race, six and detemining look through UI custimazation of character
-Swords, Axes, MAces, Shields, bows, magic
-Mages, Warriors, Rangers, Assassins and hybrids of these
-Crafting, Enchanting, Alchemy
-Stealing, Sneaking and Pickpocketing
-120+ hours of gameplay
-Dragons, Spiders, Bears, Wolves, Undead
-MOuntians, Snow, Caves, Dungeons
-Buying and decorating houses
-Accumulating treasure and loot
-Doing hundreds of quests
-Exploring and traps
-The list goes on....
So because I prefer a complex game rather than a simplified game I don't know what RPG stands for?
As I have said, I have played TES RPG's since Daggerfall. I know damn good and well what TES RPG's are. I know what complex is and I know what Simplified is. All the things you listed might be in Skyrim, but that doesn't translated into complex.
A game can have 2 pages full of features, but if everything is given to you and there is no kind of incentives or consequences than you still do not have complex.